and he has been her best friend for the past year and 1/2, also she says "I love you!" and "lookin good" and "love ya" but she just means that in a best-friend kinda way...but he's a black guy and thinks that she REALLY loves him(I think) and he hugs her and does stuff that he might think is ok or w/e but he knows that my girlfriend loves me more than ever...i'm really not sure how to handle this, becuase we have talked about it a lot allready but she says that "she can't do anything about it" and he says "he can't live w/o her and she sent him something about a picture from school(in a chorus class) that he was holding his arms around her and she didn't want him to put that picture online(cuz he was) and then she never told me about it, but I figured out and she doesn't know I know about it(AND I CAN'T TELL HER! please don't tell me to tell her, it's not an option...) and I feel like she keeps thing froms me....please help!
2006-07-13 05:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should tell her how you feel!! If you're being crowded out by this other guy then you need to tell her. If she really loves you like she says, she will tell the other guy to back off, if she doesn't, she is showing that she values her friendship with the other guy more than she values your relationship together.
He sounds like a creep!! He should respect your relationship together- have you spoken to him about this? My husband would king hit anyone that did those things with me, regardless of how long we'd been friends ( I would do the same), and I respect that about him. I am with him, and he is with me, no grey area. Ask her how she would feel if a girl was treating you that way and you said "I can't do anything about it!"
Your girlfriend probably doesn't want to hurt the other guys feelings, but at the end of the day, she needs to acknowledge your feelings and put them above the other guys.
2006-07-13 15:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude dont take this the wrong way.. but Grow up... thats now how the real world lives..if she loves you then you are the most important thing to her.. if thats the case then she should respect your feelings and hey dude its obvious this bothers you..... tell her it does.. ask her to cool the friendship off and make it clear that she has not romantic feelings for him and if he doesnt like it then she will have nothing to do with him ever again... his call. if that dont work.. dump her move on to a women that does care about your feelings then hunt him down and kick his a** like the guy above said...lol ( no dont really, i just got a chuckle out of the answer)
2006-07-13 05:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by needingitnow342000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves him as a best friend I don't think she will cross the line.I have a best friend that loves me in a girlfriend way but he knows I love him like a brother.So it will never be.
2006-07-13 05:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and call her cell phone to see what going on text messege her and and ask her and talk things out
2006-07-13 05:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother....
first rule in luv for guys....
if ur instinct say dat ur gal is hiding smethin from u n she is intrstd in sme oder guy dun ignore it....its surely is smethin...
m sorry to say wat u r goin to read mayb it might hurt u....
its clear she is enjoyin her part wit the other guy... ders nathin dat she cant do anythin about wat dat guy is doin wit her...fact is she doen wanna stop him....
i wont ask u to leave her... i wud rather say change ur attittude towards her... dun luv her anymore.... get wat u can get.... n wen d rite ttime cums say gudbye....
wen d rite time comes!!!
2006-07-13 05:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by ii_classy_ii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then leave her
2006-07-13 05:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her
2006-07-13 05:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his ***
2006-07-13 05:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Thick Haitian Mamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋