I asked out this guy named Zach and he laughed and called me fat, and i am not that fat. how can i get over this? he ruined my reputation and my self esteem. I feel so lonely...
2006-07-13 05:35:22 · 12 answers · asked by yayhorsie_92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, you are a girl with a lot of courage and strength. To go up to a guy and ask him out. Bravery! This guy Zach called you fat to make you insecure about yourself and to lower your self esteem, which it seems has occurred. Your stepping up to him to ask him out showed him how brave you are and he wanted to shoot your self esteem down. Don't ever give anyone the POWER to control you or your emotions. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. And you are too. Don't EVER let anyone convince you that you are not. Man, I have never had the guts to ask a boy out. Hats off to you because you are the queen!!! YOU GO GIRL!
2006-07-13 05:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a guy ruin your self esteem. He is a dog..to act that way. He don't deserve you anyway. You are way to good to put up with all that. It was only 1 guy and he was probably trying to look good in front of his friends. Don't care what other people think. Just be yourself and tell him in your head where to go. Its his lost not yours and someday he will realize that.
I am sorry he treated you that way. Most guys are a**holes. Good Luck with all the lucky guys that get you.
2006-07-13 05:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your affection. That's the first thing you have to put on your mind. Second, be with your friends or family. Go out with them, have fun. Hopefully, this will make you forget what he did to you. Third, always remember, time heals. So, besides going out with friends and family, you can also make yourserlf busy by doing your hobbies. As time passes by, you should get over him. Lastly, after you've managed to get over him, find another guy. But please, be careful. Find the one you are absolutely sure won't hurt you, even if he doesn't share the same feeling. Good luck =)
2006-07-13 05:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Little Detective 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm... What does it actual remember? Why does it propose a lot to you, who's better beautiful? Does this shallow, petty habit propose better than your friendship? Or does it propose that you only loaf round so called acquaintances who make you look good by technique of evaluation? all of us have distinct values. allure, elegance, and want are not any distinct in this. you're the nice and comfortable gal faster or later and your chum/s the subsequent. it actual relies upon on who's searching. top?
2016-12-01 05:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** on him girl, who cares about what he thinks, --
if you have more pounds on your hips, it is ok, if you want to lose some weight it is ok to, but donot change your weight to satisfy anyone, you can still be sexy when you have alot of weight, check out some style magazines, were over weighted actresses are showed in, like queen latifah or others, look how she styles, maybe you can ware the same, .. the guy who called you fat did not ruin your reputation, he only wanted to make you angry, and as i see he has made it,
just ignore him
2006-07-13 05:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by spider-joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he treated you that way. Sounds like a real jerk. You just have to know that you are beautiful and learn to love yourself and no be too distraught over his opinion, know that there is someone who thinks you are beautiful, but probably doesnt have the courage to let you know. I give you props just for being able to ask a guy out, a fear i have never been able to overcome!
2006-07-13 05:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by jodie t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally feel your pain. it is experiences like these that make young ladies not ask guys out and start to think less of themselves. guys can be so cruel and for no reason. you need to spend some time convincing yourself that he is the one that missed out and that it is unfortunate that he likes to date skin and bones and can't take or handle someone with some meat on her bones.....thats messed up! GIVE A DOG A BONE...HE WILL BURY IT! GIVE HIM A STEAK...AND HE'LL EAT IT!!!!! words to live by!
2006-07-13 05:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This type of guy is a jerk lah...go out wit ur gal frens or best frens lah...go shopping, dinner, movie, club or watsoever and u will soon forget him...there are alot of guy out there lah...
2006-07-13 05:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by mervz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are cruel get over it and move on.
2006-07-13 05:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to him, he must be that stupid to say that, if you listen to him he will feel better cause you are sad, never, ever listen to despectfull coments or when they tell you that, you just laught like you dont care, that would make them get mad
2006-07-13 05:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Patricio B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋