Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

This is for all!so feel free to answer. The secrets that many ignore or just don't want to know. I ask both emotional and physical level.

2006-07-13 06:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by fenrir_131 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 31 years old, married for 8 years with 2 children ages 3 and 1. I am in love with another woman, a brilliant, lovely, sweet woman from Russia living in America named "Elena". I am 100 percent certain that she is my soulmate. I told her that I was not married and she has no idea that I have children as well. I wish now that I had not gotten married in the first place. But I love my children dearly. My wife is a great person, great mother, good wife, but I don't love her. The only true love I have ever known is with "Elena". "Elena" is perfect for me and I feel that I need to be with her. I am terrified to tell her that I'm married with kids. But I know that I must. Yes I have made mistakes. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. To make matters worse, I am in the middle of a long distance move for a new job. My wife and children have gone ahead for 4 weeks while I stay and finish out business at my old job. "Elena" is here. My heart is here as well. What to do????

2006-07-13 06:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Ginny C & Hobie D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 06:28:46 · 11 answers · asked by shellie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

some people may say i dont love her..bcuz i wanna mess around..but i do..im simply a guy with urges for other woman..

2006-07-13 06:28:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do yall think about promise rings and what do they mean 2 u?

2006-07-13 06:28:37 · 8 answers · asked by H 1 in Singles & Dating

what's a great fast or slow song that gets almost everyone up to dance at weddings (whether they can dance or not)...

here and now...luther vandross
still the one...shania twain....

2006-07-13 06:28:16 · 11 answers · asked by ladytina30 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 06:27:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

a drunk, or dependent on some kind of drug or hung up on himself?

2006-07-13 06:26:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you have a feeling your partner is hideing something. You are not sure though. You have a problem with insecurity. Would you keep looking for the answer or just leave it alone? It may cause problems in the long run though. So what if you end up finding out there is nothing and due to you looking for the answer caused your relashionship to end. What would you do? And what if there WAS something?.......
My friend asks this question, she's going through this right now. =(

2006-07-13 06:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by yo_010180 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 06:25:59 · 4 answers · asked by HarMonia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 06:25:54 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this almost brings stress to most of my friends life,they feel thee are not able to cope up with all this tensiion around the corner...can you guys help.

2006-07-13 06:25:24 · 3 answers · asked by angel gione 2 in Singles & Dating

My step grandfather (who I don't even know and haven't seen since I was a small child) was invited to my wedding without my knowledge. My mother didn't think he would come. Well, he is coming. I don't feel like he should be honored along with the other grandparents in the ceremony, on the program or invited to the rehersal dinner. My mother thinks otherwise. I don't want to be rude, and intend to be very cordial, but he hasn't "earned" the right to be honored alongside the other grandparents. Your thoughts, please.

2006-07-13 06:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by rlbintegrity 2 in Weddings

His father never really tried to excercise his visitation rights to begin with, I was the one who pushed for visitations. Please help as this is tearing my son up emotionally.

2006-07-13 06:24:27 · 13 answers · asked by Lori R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 12 yrs younger than him

2006-07-13 06:24:01 · 3 answers · asked by Carmen L 1 in Friends

i am 50 two girls aged 25 and 28 want me to go camping this week-end do you think i will be safe

2006-07-13 06:23:59 · 58 answers · asked by leslie c 4 in Friends

what about when she's here. girls won't take advantage of me will they? i just had my chat cherry popped!

2006-07-13 06:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by michael m 2 in Singles & Dating

I was having a very hot night with my husband and I started to talk dirty to him and his response wasn't like he liked it, It is a guy thing or maybe just my husband??

2006-07-13 06:21:35 · 25 answers · asked by lissa7903 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he's nice to me,i kissed hem beause he was to shy to kiss me,and he is shy around me.

2006-07-13 06:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 06:19:39 · 5 answers · asked by leanthony 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i help my wife?
what kind of food can she have?
what kind of clothing should she use?
can she put on weight safely?
is it advisable for her to strain at the begining of her pregnancy?
should she stay with me or her parents?

2006-07-13 06:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by angel gione 2 in Family

2006-07-13 06:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by Day Day 1 in Weddings

My wife and I have been married for a little over two months but we have lived together for five years. We haven't had sex, we've actually been going through some difficulties. She has also stopped taking her birth control pills before our wedding. She is always home every night, she's very busy at work, doesn't have any suspicious calls on our cell phone bill but I can't help but wonder if she is cheating on me. We've never gone this long without sex, no matter what problems we may have been going through. She doesn't masterbate and we don't have sex. Is it possible for a woman to just love their sex drive all together like this or could she be seeing someone else? Also, we dont kiss either. The only thing I do know that she is doing is talking to this guy friend of hers that lives out of state, but other than that I cant see how she would find the time to cheat. I did see emergency contraceptives in her purse a couple weeks ago that caused a big fight, but she said they were

2006-07-13 06:18:54 · 30 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and she is always calling herself fat. the really bad thing is that her mom and her brothers call her fat also. I feel really bad for how can I get her to see that she is great girl inside and out?

2006-07-13 06:18:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please I need your help...What to do at a wake/service of a young boy that was murdered. I'm very upset over the whole thing, but I dont know what the proper thing to do at these things ...I already visited the family briefly to give my condolences. I hate that I probably cant get anyone to go with me because its going to be uncomfortable

2006-07-13 06:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by PersianPrincess 1 in Family

I have a 6 month old son, with a great man...that I love very much. We recently just moved back to my home town and I found out that my high school love s getting married in a couple months. All of these old feelings are coming back. We loved each other very much and were close to getting married until I went a little crazy. I can't stop thinking about him, and I feel horrible that I lay next to the man I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and think about someoneI used to love. I'm so confused...and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions.

2006-07-13 06:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by cooper 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Stupid Question? Ask yourself...

2006-07-13 06:16:59 · 20 answers · asked by The Dynasty 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a month old baby and a 20 month old at home. My dad just had a quadruple bypass, I'm not getting along with my parents or my husband, both my kids have been sick over the last couple of months, I've been sick, I get no sleep and there are endless demands. I have no one to talk to and I'm at my wits end. I have no time for myself. I haven't showered in 2 days. I'm ready to explode. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

2006-07-13 06:16:37 · 9 answers · asked by Janet A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

General body language question.

2006-07-13 06:15:46 · 17 answers · asked by ABIINSD 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 06:14:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating