some people may say i dont love her..bcuz i wanna mess around..but i do..im simply a guy with urges for other woman..
2006-07-13 06:28:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you need to talk to your girlfriend and explain to her that you love her but you want to mess around and you don't want to hurt her. She is probably not going to take it well but I bet she would rather you tell her instead of cheating on her behind her back. Good luck with that one.
2006-07-13 06:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a waffler. you want to be the nice guy who loves his girlfriend AND the guy who gets hanky panky all over the place. You can't have it both ways. Make a decision about which is more important to you and go with it. If you love your girlfriend then stay with her and make her happy as best you can. If not then say "sorry baby you're real nice and all but I'm going to cultivate a closer relationship with my dick and there's just no room for you anymore". Give her a clean break and then you'll be free to go get whatever you want without letting someone who cares about you get in the way.
It may sound to you like I think you'd be a jerk to leave her, and it's sorta true, you would be. But in our day and age no girl really wants to be with a guy who's not an experienced stud who's slept his way around the world. That's what chicks generally like. So you're stuck in a hard place; either be a jerk and leave your girlfriend for shallow reasons, or stay and risk losing her respect in the long term because you're not manly enough in her eyes.
But really the best thing to do is make a decision and stick with it, don't flip flop because you'll cause more grief than is necessary. If you decide to leave your girl, it will be better in this case if you are a bit of an asshole about it, then it will make it easier for her to get over you
2006-07-13 13:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out man LOVE is not only a feeling it is a big responsibility too. When u love someone u commit that u will b loyal and caring to her or him. Ur urge toward other girls is natural but remember it is only true love that will go with u for ur life not the feeling of yours which u have for other chicks. So hey listen up to your heart and not to ur DICK Have a nice time
DEVIL
2006-07-13 13:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by DEVIL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand you..I'm marreid and was with someone else not because i didn't lve my husband but because I wanted something new I wanted to feel the first time feeling again....not to mention I could have sex 2-3 times a day and be happy while my husband wants it a little less.... maybe she'd be cool with an open relationship...the open marriage was a little too much for us to handle ..if not maybe you need to move on instead of cheating...
2006-07-13 13:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend like that, thats not real love and thats okay because love is also having passion for the other person. If it's not there, then its not there anymore. Like a sister kind of love....without the passion. One way or the other its over.
2006-07-13 13:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might love her, but it seems as though you're no longer IN love with her. You aren't ready to be in a stable relationship or are no longer wanting to be.
You need to just be honest with her and let her know that you need to be free, you no longer want to be tied down in or in a committed relationship. Let her know how much you care for her, but just need your space and time to sow your oats as they say. She may or may not understand, but at least you will have been honest with her about it.
2006-07-13 13:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with out the drama that is easy. be honset and tell her the truth. tell her you love her but you want to see other people, if you lucky she maybe willing to have a open relationship with you where you guys see other people and still be together. (like friends with benefits). there is no easy way. youre going to hurt her feelings. or maybe not.....
2006-07-13 13:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by llcoolcisco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out how you feel but don't cheat on her. if you have sex with other girls be careful you may catch something and then give it to her too. Don't cheat!!!!!!
2006-07-13 13:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kandiedoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big-Ron-Doo!!!
At least you're a gentleman and won't cheat!! But is it worth loosing a LOVE for some slice of @ss????
Just a thought...............
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-07-13 13:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you and her had sex?Whether you have or haven't...if you're willing to leave her for someone else's sex than you must not truely love her....it's just the truth
2006-07-13 13:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋