This is for all!so feel free to answer. The secrets that many ignore or just don't want to know. I ask both emotional and physical level.
2006-07-13 06:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by fenrir_131 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My husband and I have been married over 20 years. We never let a day pass without expressing our love in words and deeds, including plenty of hugs and kisses. We read the Bible together every night. We talk about our lives ... good and bad. We've learned to not go to bed angry, that every day together is precious. To express our gratitude for all our blessings from God. Sharing our faith is an important part of our marriage. We are committed to keeping our vows to love, honor, cherish, be faithful to each other, staying together in sickness and health. It's important to communicate honestly with each other. I know that I can always count on him and he can count on me, no matter what. Our intimate life has changed due to his treatment for prostate cancer. However, that has not caused our love to diminish in the slightest. We are true soul mates.
2006-07-13 06:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am 29 and my husband is 42, we have been together for 10 years. Here is my advice, “Never forget why you fell in love with that person.”. When the dishes aren’t done after you asked them 900 times to do them, or you haven’t had sex in what seems like a million years because life has made you exhausted, cuss them out, throw pillows, do whatever but never lose sight of the fact that you fell in love with this person and even with all of the daily sh*t, you can work through it!
2006-07-13 06:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mel in STL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tolerance and Compromise.
One must WANT to be in the relationship. Never be in a relationship simply because you have nothing better to do! You must also to share some of the same interests while maintaining your OWN interests. This eliminates boredom. Try not to include CONTROL because it just uses too much energy...try to have a relationship that is easy and flows.
Good Luck!
2006-07-13 06:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for two years now and for us it because we have complete honesty and trust. We always talk about everything and we don't leave anything out. we respect each other too when we need alittle space.
Love is a very part of our relationship and we show it to each other everyday with a kiss or some kind of affection.
just show your mate how you feel and you will have a strong marriage for ever.
2006-07-13 08:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
Trust
Common interests
Knowing you CAN NOT change the other person.
Same ideas about money issues
Same ideas about raising children
Working together
If something is bothering you (Women) Talk to your man, they don't know how to read minds like we do.
Men are simple creatures, don't expect alot, don't read into things, don't be a nagging woman.
Have a good sex life, try new things. Oral, movies, positions, lube, toys, etc...
Don't be one of those people who keep track of every little thing.
Gifts.......don't exchange them on the minor holidays, have sex instead.
You can not change your man!! so don't try
Have fun together, but have your own hobbies too.
Don't get into financial trouble. If you can't pay for it, don't get it.
2006-07-13 06:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
searching one yet another over and yet all over again. Remembering to snort and make one yet another smile. conserving fingers and going for a walk together. putting forward i'm sorry once you're incorrect and forgiving even as the different is. Being there even as your better 0.5 needs someone to search for suggestion from from and be expertise even as they purely do not pick to discuss it. putting forward "i love You" a million distinct procedures yet whenever you do you be conscious the different individual eliminate darkness from interior. Marriage is a provide and take. It takes staying power, believe, and assorted expertise yet once you detect your tournament it is the only ingredient which will keep you getting up contained in the morning. i'm hoping this facilitates. Oh sure it truly is plausible. i got here upon mine 5 years in the past and we celebrated our 1st anniversary very few days in the past.
2016-12-01 05:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by policastro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the most important thing. if ur not talking to each other then u practically have nothing. but when your mad at ur other half it's important to say whats on ur mind but in talking and not yelling . but always remember how much you love this person . and sex is very important in the relationship because for a man its how they express their love , the intimacy and closeness. and when your giving that to them , then the emotional expression of love that you crave will be given to you , each goes hand in hand.
2006-07-13 06:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have celebrated our 38th. marriage anniversary on last July 06th.We believe,we are the happiest couple in this earth.This
is due to our true love,sincerity,honesty & ever lasting sexual
pleaser from each other.When I go to bed I feel sexy while my
wife also feels sexy as we love each other which is true true &
true.
2006-07-13 06:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and trust are critical, otherwise, most other things can be worked out, but if you dont have these two, you are finished.
2006-07-13 06:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it's absolute truth in everything you say (except in the case of jokes or surprise parties).
2006-07-13 06:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by psykhaotic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋