What would you do?

Question

What would you do if you have a feeling your partner is hideing something. You are not sure though. You have a problem with insecurity. Would you keep looking for the answer or just leave it alone? It may cause problems in the long run though. So what if you end up finding out there is nothing and due to you looking for the answer caused your relashionship to end. What would you do? And what if there WAS something?.......
My friend asks this question, she's going through this right now. =(

Answer 1

I would get individual therapy and consider couple's counseling. If she's that insecure, no matter what is going on in the relationship she will feel uncomfortable - especially if her partner is not an incredibly communicative type (i.e., if he leaves a blank for her to fill in, she will fill it in with a negative).

Answer 2

Sounds to me like she has already found something wrong with the relationship it is called lack of trust. If it something she continually does with every one she is with she really needs to get help for herself. If it is this particular guy move on even if you find nothing now you will always be looking until you do find something. You can never just enjoy the relationship because there will always be doubt and suspicion. Find someone you trust completely. Life is way to short to waste time trying to find something when you have no idea what your looking for and even if you don't find it you just think you haven't looked in the right place yet. Let it go.

Answer 3

I would keep searching and then after a decent amount of time I found nothing, I would forget about it and go on. If you are good at looking, you wont cause your relationship to end.

Answer 4

Women's 'gut feelings' are usually right.
She should do some 'discreet' snooping, but if she turns up nothing, then she should just let it go, rather than jeopardize what may be an otherwise good relationship.