I am 31 years old, married for 8 years with 2 children ages 3 and 1. I am in love with another woman, a brilliant, lovely, sweet woman from Russia living in America named "Elena". I am 100 percent certain that she is my soulmate. I told her that I was not married and she has no idea that I have children as well. I wish now that I had not gotten married in the first place. But I love my children dearly. My wife is a great person, great mother, good wife, but I don't love her. The only true love I have ever known is with "Elena". "Elena" is perfect for me and I feel that I need to be with her. I am terrified to tell her that I'm married with kids. But I know that I must. Yes I have made mistakes. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. To make matters worse, I am in the middle of a long distance move for a new job. My wife and children have gone ahead for 4 weeks while I stay and finish out business at my old job. "Elena" is here. My heart is here as well. What to do????
2006-07-13 06:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Ginny C & Hobie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're a dumb azz. You deserve to be dumped by both these women. I am sure Elena is going to love you forever after she finds out how you have been lying to her for all this time, and she's gonna accept your kids like her own, yeah right. Oh and your wife, she's gonna clean you out and make you so poor that Elena is not gonna have any thing to do with you. You screwed up big time bro. Also, consider this, there are what, a couple BILLION girls in the world, and somehow Elena is your soulmate? Give me a break. Have you lived with Elena yet? Have you shared common everyday responsibilities with her yet? Laundry, dishes, bills, mortgage? You might just be surprise how regular she is after the lust and newness of the "other woman" wears off. You are screwed, ha ha.
2006-07-13 07:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to Elena any more. Tell her the truth and say you're leaving your wife. And then do it. As for the kids, they're screwed.
2006-07-13 06:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you do this , you should have told her from the beginning you are married , what if she would have never been intimate with you had she known you were married , you never gave her that chance , your low . and how can you continue to do this to your wife, is that all the thanks she gets for sticking by your sorry a$$.heres what you do , tell both women TODAY, hopefully they both will dump you , good luck
2006-07-13 06:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to come clean to both woman and hope the one you love accepts your lies. if not you may end up alone. Good luck
2006-07-13 06:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋