2006-07-13 05:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by CrystalGenesis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-14 19:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
By finding common interests, that attracts two people all the time.
2006-07-13 12:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by TexasBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It initially starts with what the eye sees, then when you start to talk more....you find other reasons to be attracted.
2006-07-13 12:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by mizphilosophical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY, BEING CONFIDENT, bold, and approachable.. by not complementing her on her beauty..but rather something about her...by stimulating her emotions, both the negative and positive ones...by finding common intrests and disqualifying them!. by making her feel good and getting her to assosiate that good feeling she has to you!...by creating good raport both deep and wide
2006-07-13 13:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compatible and complementary Neurosis.
2006-07-13 12:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by traderbobhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no rule to attraction it just happens
you cant control it
if you could then it would just be fake
2006-07-13 12:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by satanmonsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i begged . still do occasionally .
2006-07-13 12:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by jadubya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...it is magic, i think
2006-07-13 13:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by iamblur06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno
2006-07-13 12:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋