Well I am deeply in love with my ex boyfriend but he no longer feels the same about me. I really would like to try again to be his baby. I mean he tells me that he loves me but then again he doesn't act like he cares anymore. I GOT IT BAD! To be completly honest I have been in love with him since the first day I laid eyes on him! When we made it official that we were together last summer my heart just opened up to him and only him. He was so sweet, I loved everything about him. Every time I was near him my heart would race. I loved his smile so much that I can still picture in my mind. We are still friends but it is so hard to just be friends with someone that you care about so deeply. Its like his feeling just changed over night but I am still stuck on him. I want to get over him but at the same time I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART and I dont ever see him leaving it. What should I do???
2006-07-13 05:11:52 · 14 answers · asked by youngnready1506 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had one of those too. Very sad to loose the one you love. It got better and I met someone else and married him. I do still think of my ex and will never forget being on my honeymoon and hearing the song "If you can't love the one you want, love the one you're with" ..... how true that was for me....
Still married after ten years so things do get better and life goes on. there are other fish in the sea.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 05:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like you're going to have to move on from this if he doesn't have the same feelings for you. That is probably the hardest thing in the world to hear and 10 times harder to do. But you never know what he could be up to, trying to see just how much you care about him or what lengths you will go to to get him back.. People don't just stop having feelings for someone overnight. If he's doing this to you, he's probably not worth it.
If you really want things to work out, talk to him. Ask him what happened, and if there's any way to fix it. If he's willing to try again, it will take a while for things to be the way they were.
If he's not willing to talk it out, what I would do is keep active and keep doing the things you love to do most. Keep your mind off your feelings, watch a movie, especially with your girl friends, hang out, etc. Stay happy and eventually, things will get better and you'll find someone better.
Good luck
2006-07-13 05:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by nintendofreak91788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in the same situation as you. Best you can do, is if he isn't feeling the same about you - you need to move on. Because if you don't, it'll just lead to heartache in the future. Keep yourself busy, meet new people, etc. Sounds like remaining friends with him, at least at this point, is not a good idea. You need to break ties with him until you're strong enough to be only his friend. As hard as it sounds to do, you'll be MUCH happier in the future. I gave the same advice to my friend, and she ended up meeting someone 100 times better than what she had and is happier than ever now, and the guy that didn't have the same feelings for her, is the farthest thing from her mind right now! But you need to get your ex out of sight and out of mind. That's the first step! Good luck to you!
2006-07-13 05:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by misskris1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't say how old you are, but it sounds like you are rather young. ???
But, it sounds like it just wasn't meant to be.
Honestly, I can't see how you can be just friends with him with you feeling the way you do. You should probably stay away from him for a while, until you DO feel that way too. Otherwise, you're setting yourself up for more heartbreak.
Go out with other friends, have fun ! You'll find someone else that will take your breath away the same way.
Trust me on that !
Even though I'm probably a lot older than you, I can still relate.
I've had my share of " I'll never find anyone like him ".
But, ya know what ? I was SO wrong !!!!
Good luck with it, stay strong !
2006-07-13 05:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy.. you do have it bad...
Been there, done that.. and the only thing that worked for me was to cut off contact completely. I know exactly how you feel. It's horrible.. almost like an obsession, but you have to accept that it's over. Just allow yourself to be miserable and to miss him for a while, but then you have to get your act together and move on. It IS over and it'll never be the same again even if you managed to get him back. You HAVE to move on. Start talking to other guys and hang out with others. Won't be much fun at first, but in time you'll meet someone else and you'll look back and the feeling will be gone. Trust me on this one.
2006-07-13 05:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give it a rest clear your head and seek some other type of high, back away if he really truly loves you he Will be right back in your arms but don't make a fool out of yourself alright , Good luck
2006-07-13 05:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by michellegprix99@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagination:Masterbation - And get some self-esteem! There are lots of great guys out there that will reciprocate your feelings.
Until then just follow my initial advice - Good Luck
2006-07-13 05:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by BluntForceTrauma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that and if he still blows u off then do whatever u can to try and move on i have the same problem and that person doesnt even realize how much i luv him. i do w/ever i can but i have to try and move on with my life.
2006-07-13 05:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not feel the same for you then it will never work out
I have been there & know what it's like
It's best to go on w/ your life, don't worry you will find the
right one when the time is right
Get on w/ your life & good luck
2006-07-13 05:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if he's acting like he dosen't care about you anymore.then give up and let him go.beause you're only going to get hurt in the long run.you may still love him but dose he still love you like you think he dose?and if he dosnt then you need to let him go and move on. good luck
2006-07-13 05:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋