Ive been with her for 8 months and seven days now. We are quite serious about each other (im serious about her I assure you, and she claims she is about me). We always knew that her parents would do this eventually, but we didnt expect it to happen so soon. We are only 17. She claimed that she would go against her parents when the time came, but at the present she can't, as she wishes to go to university but is not financially stable! She claims if she denies their wishes she will be disowned.
What can I do. I dont want to lose her. I know she doesn't support arranged marriage, and she does not really want to accept this, but at the present she is almost acting like she doesnt care anymore. I cant let this happen, for both of our sakes!
If anyone has any queries about my question just ask. Please, i beg you, i need help.
P.s. if it would help, my girlfriend is southern Indian, a Hindu Brahman Iyengar, her parents are quite religious, and her whole family are strict vegetarians
2007-11-22
17:26:47
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