I want to join the Army, i have not told my boyfriend yet but know he wont be happy. I have brung this subject up in conversation in a hypthetical manner and he was against it.
There is a big age gap between us (i'm 20 he's 34), and feel this is where the problems happen, he already has a career and i want to make one for my self. He would be happy if i moved in and he was the bread winner but this isn't me. I want to join the Army, go to far away places, work hard, and achieve something.
Sometimes i feel he's alot of hard work, i have to watch what i say so he doesn't take it the wrong way & have to make sure i text him throughout the day otherwise he gets in a strop.
I also dont like who he is when he has had a few drinks. We've only been together for three months and twice he has been extremely verbally abusive towards me after alot of drink.
All this aside i love spending with him, he's a different person. He's funny, kind & generous.
Help me!!!!
2007-10-11
02:50:24
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