it is definatley his baby as we knew she was expecting but was told that she had had a termination, my son is in the navy and is based in scotland, she was a bit older than him, (he is 23) and he told her he wasnt ready to be a dad, she obviously couldnt go through with it and now wants him to have the option of getting to know his daughter. I cannot contact him as he is a sub-mariner and is at sea till the end of November, but what do I do in the meantime?? Do I get to know her and be a part of her life, (as I am her grandmother after all) knowing that it will be impossible for my son to visit regularly, even if he wants to, which I dont know yet. She is my first grandchild, (I'm 43) the ex girlfriend is now a single mother of 2, her other child is 4 and I am at a complete loss as to what to do for the best......help!!
2007-09-27
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