really wants out of that same sh*tty marriage? I have read so much about what the shrinks call "exit afairs". Self explanatory I think. They dont know how else to end the marriage, so they destroy it. My husband had an affair, and I am trying hard to determine if he would have rather I kicked him out instead of teling him we can try again and try to save what little is left of our marriage. He has bent over backwards to prove his remorse and intent to want it to work, but who knows about that, he lied for 5 months while he was banging some other woman. I just dont know what the truth is anymore. Somtmes I think I should just let him go, and other times I think he made a VERY poor choice when he was faced with a failing marriage, instead of just telling me he wasnt happy. is it possible unhappy marriages can drive men to cheat? and if the issues are worked out, the marriage can survive w/o future infidelity? I'm confused.
2007-09-21
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