My bf (of 2 years) and I broke up in July. He told me when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo that he wasn't ready and stormed out when I wouldn't "take care" of the situation. He is a selfish, immature, abusive, lying sob and yes, I should have dumped him a long time ago, but stupid me let my feelings get in the way. He has not tried to contact me for well over a month. I absolutely hate him for abandoning me, when he wanted this baby for a long time. I have no family here, but great friend support, great job, I'm 34 healthy and independent. I'm also going to a therapist b/c he messed me up bad. I've thought about telling him when our son is born and then I'm like "no way". I don't even know if I want to waste my time w/child support as he never paid for anything when we were together. It's hard for me to do everything on my own, but I'm getting thru this. As much as I loved him, I will never forget or forgive him. I thought about calling his family after the birth b/c they don't know either.
2007-09-11
14:34:13
·
59 answers
·
asked by
pussnboots333
4
in
Marriage & Divorce