Ex was ordered to pay me child support for our 2 kids. I felt with her job situation (been at her present job for about 6 months), it would overwhelm her so I offered to send her about half the money (with my oldest) to help buy food, clothes, etc..., at least until she gets established in this job. I'd rather have a little support now than no support at all and their mom in legal trouble. She took great offense to the offer and chewed me out for disrespecting her and stating " you are still trying to control my life" issues. She stated she didn't need my help because she had friends and family and refused. Long story short, one payment in now she has suddenly reconsidered. Asked in a nice tone but certainly not gracious or apologetic. Should I offer again and play nice or should I just tell it was a one-time offer and she has to sleep in the bed she made?
2007-08-02
03:21:12
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