hey guys
Strange question, please try and be civil one and all. I was just wondering when or even if its' ok to date a person's partner while they're still seeing someone else? Most people call it stealing them, and there is a huge stigma about it all.
Reason being I was chatting to my fiancee about this one, and we went through the same situation where she and I fell in love with each other while she was engaged to someone she didn't care for. I am now engaged to her and very happy, but I've been branded with this "label" for being a "b*****d" and a "thief", which I find hurtful as most people don't understand it. Even my family for a few months after criticised me for "stealing" someone's fiancee, even though I feel for once I was justified on that one (much longer story but not enough room). Fact was that her ex fiancee ended up raping her, so was I really so bad for taking her to be with me?
Anyways, can anyone think of any other examples where it might be ok?
Toodles
2007-04-25
10:01:21
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