My wife and I have been together for 10 years, 5 1/2 married. Lately she has told me that she feels like were more friends than lovers. She says she's felt like this for a few years, but has been trying to figure out what was wrong. I recommended counceling, but she says she doesn't believe in it. She told me she loves me, but isn't "in love" with me anymore, and doesn't feel romantically attracted to me. She then told me there's someone at work that she "thinks" she might have feelings for and "might" be sexually attracted to. Now, she says she has not acted on these feelings. We're now seperated for about 3 weeks, because she said she needed time to figure out what she wants, and I still hope she comes back. But, I have a feeling she has already made up her mind and needs time to figure out how to tell me. I love her so much that I would be willing to let her go, as much as it would hurt. Should I just abandon all hope and figure out how to go on without her?
2007-03-07
03:41:10
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