My sister has been dating this low life for over five years. He does nothing but mistreat her and cheat on her. He just returned from prison for being caught at a cocaine spot after purchasing enough for him to deal himself. My sister has stood by him the whole time as he has accused her of cheating, while she hasn't and he has. I have tried to talk to her about it, but she avoids the topic. I have given her a few months to think about what I said and I don't think it has really helped. The sad thing is that many women go to jail/prison for their boyfriends. She let's him drive her car and helps him in every way she can. I told her that it only enables him and he seems to be heading back on the same path he was on before.
2007-03-07 03:42:01 · 7 answers · asked by themoodyspacecadet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just love her, as I know you do. I'm glad that you said something to her b/c that is what you should as a sister and friend. Be careful not to push too much b/c you will push her away from you and then she will not have anyone but him. And she will need you when the dust settles and she can see through.
2007-03-07 15:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business, and be willing to be there to pick up the pieces.
The more issue you take with this, the more she will cling to her relationship with this guy.
It is hard without a doubt, but it is in the end the only answer.
2007-03-07 11:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by flyhasitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do just stay out of it because it is really up to your sister whom she want to date. SORRY! having a felon is the going thing now my daughter has one and she is a administrative assistant.
2007-03-07 11:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can do but stand by her. Love makes us all really stupid sometimes. Hopefully, she will wake up and get the hint soon, but the more you push her, the more she will want to be with him.
2007-03-07 11:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something she is going to have to figure out on her own...just make sure you are there to dry her tears when she finally does....good luck!
2007-03-07 11:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been in this situation before too...... what i did was prove to my sis that her boy friend was a felon and then she believed me and she broke up w/ him..so you should try that too...im a pro!
2007-03-07 11:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Jayde♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. This is her decision to stand by this guy, all you can do is be there for her if the relationship fails.
2007-03-07 11:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋