My husband loves to control the money. Usually when I get paid, he transfers all my money into his account and pays bills,he leaves like $50 and expects me to 'make it last' till next payday. I finally stood my ground and am now keeping my money & helping him pay the bills. Now, I'm doing a little job on the side as a typist, and he's already trying to decide for me how to use the money. I told him it's mine and I will decide how to spend it, but he's just not getting it. I can already tell it might lead to an argument later - I have to, again, stand up to him and tell him its MY MONEY. It's not like I'm going shopping with it, I'm trying to make it last till my next payday, I even gave him some of it, but aparently it's not enough. Am I being selfish? Don't I have the right to hold onto AND decide how to spend MY money?
2006-10-24
08:05:11
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amyvnsn
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Marriage & Divorce