My ex just informed me that she's stripping at a local club on weekends when my son is with me (every other). This decision is the latest in a series of questionable ones she has made vis-a-vis our child - she moved her boyfriend in before the divorce was final, then moved him out/back in again. She claims the job is out of necessity and to avoid our son having to do some kind of day care after school - yet she goes out and buys a BMW and plans a cruise with the boyfriend next week. I think the decision is wrong on many fronts - it puts her (my son's mother) at risk due to the many dangers of the work environment, it exposes him to it potentially (i.e., stalkers), and it raises the possibility that he finds out his mother is a stripper (and all of the attendant psychological possibilities that may follow). She doesn't see anything wrong with it. I think all of my son's support group (grandparents, aunts, godparents) should know and am considering going for custody. Help!?
2006-06-12
08:32:47
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NashvilleDad
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Marriage & Divorce