If this is you, I know that feeling you have of the "missing" piece in your life. I had an alcoholic abusive father beyond belief. I know the fear you have about becoming a parent yourself and I'd like to share with you what I have learned. The secret is to give your children what we didn't get, you love them lavishly without stopping, love them with crazy love, I promise you it will be returned 1000x over. GIVE them what we so wanted, not money, your time and devotion. I had those same fears, I've raised 3 children and they walked in pure love everyday of their lives, I was never abusive 1 second in their lives. They all three are normal healthy, productive adults. The key is to give exactly where we wanted to be given, you know that place.
You know what to give, it's in you...it's the thing we never got but longed for. Never fear that you may pass this to the next generation, you can do this if YOU decide to turn this around and stop the cycle...we decide!!
do you agree??
2007-02-20
10:30:13
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