my question is im married and my sex life is sooo boring is it a sin to go out and buy sex toys to spice up our sex life? im not kidding i really dont know the answer to this
2007-02-20 10:12:10 · 17 answers · asked by oneandonlyness 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Nothing in the marriage bed is forbidden biblically.
2007-02-20 10:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and a wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage. Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something they are uncomfortable with or think is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (i.e., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.) - then the Bible doesn’t give any reason why they cannot give it a try.
There are a few things that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping” or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture specifically forbids a husband and wife to do with each other – as long as it is by mutual consent.
2007-02-20 20:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not a sin to buy sex-toys if you are a Christian. Even Christians have sex (when they are married).
2007-02-20 18:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by em<3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think if it was me I would be finding a new man, because he doesn't seem to care about your physical needs, and if your sex life is that boring then the inevitable will occur anyway, and your marriage will go for a you know what,
2007-02-20 18:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as both you and your husband consent and it is between only the two of you. Also, as long as it doesn't involve perverse things. What is not perverse? Simple vibrator, candy flavored lotions, etc., lingerie. What is consented of between a husband and wife and that is bringing joy to one another and tasteful is showing love to one another. Read the book of Song of Solomon in the Bible, this is about the romantic encounters between King Solomon and his wife.
2007-02-20 18:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gardener for God(dmd) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God bless you oneand. Your name is written in Heaven. You are married, go for it. But be careful don't be tempted by people outside your marriage. Keep the marriage bed Holy. One again God bless you , and may God illuminate your path in a mighty, awesome way, in Christ.
2007-02-20 19:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Andres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not a sin.
Just so you keep it between you and your spouse and avoid overtly dangerous behavior, do whatever you want. Sexuality is an allegory for spirituality, and (believe it or not) will bring you closer to God. Repentence is traditionally described as an act of erotic love.
2007-02-20 18:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a true christian, as long as you're married and you've waited until you were married to do that kind of stuff with your spouse, I don't believe there is anything wrong with it. Unless of course you're using it for the wrong intentions.
2007-02-20 18:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ aaalex. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to be careful of is that what you buy doesn't cause one of you to lust after another person. But other than that I don't think that this would fall under "sexual immorality" from the bible.
2007-02-20 18:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by putonthearmorofgod611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not aware of any Bible passage that says that it is wrong.
Read Romans chapter 14. When you figure out that passage, it clears up a lot of these types of questions (I'm serious).
2007-02-20 18:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋