It is the grandchildren of a friend, they are twins and 1 year old.I have seen the twins once, and the daughter does not keep in contact with me. Listed on the invitation are the toys she wants for the twins, and the ones she already has. They are expensive. So, here is the question, do I tell her mother I will buy what I want or not at all? Give her a gift certificate and tell her to go buy what she wants? I think that is so rude to list things like that. Like I do not have the sense to call and ask. And cost is a factor, I have only just gone back to work after a long abscence, and money is tight, I do not have $60 per kid for these toys. What do I do? I value the grandmothers friendship, but I hate to think that friendship is based on my gift buying potential.
2006-09-07
20:52:39
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