Growing up, I had a mother and a grandmother that taught me things such as respect, etiquitte and being polite. Now that I'm in college, acting like a gentleman has crippled me more than helped me in the relationship game. I have had strong relationships in the past, but my luck in the past two years hasn't been all that stellar.
My fraternity brothers tell me just to not care and act out, but whenever I've tried it, I always get the feeling in my stomach that what I'm doing is wrong and will hurt me more than help. I'm a social guy, a little bit (but just enough) of a flirt, but I'm as far from a jerk as I can be. Is there anything anyone can fill me in on that would give the "nice guy" the edge, or simply telling me where I'm goofing up? Thanks in advance everybody!
2006-09-08
16:07:55
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graffiti62
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