Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

Alright, here's what's going on. I feel as if I'm a female on the inside, but male on the outside. I'm a male and 18 years old. I'm roughly 6'2.

My brain has slowly begun to want and like feminine tendencies. I have a somewhat limp-wrist, if that means anything. I have this urge to wear women's capris, wear tight girl t-shirts and tight men t-shirts, wear tight feminine jeans, wear feminine boots, but also wear masculine flipflops and shoes. I have this urge for an androgynous hairstyle, hairless body, an urge for earrings on both ears and feminine archs. I've never really had major hair growth on my chest, arms or legs, so I find that somewhat odd. I have no real desire to wear makeup, have a sex-change or nothing drastic so to speak, but I've noticed feminine characteristics lately rising, at the same time, my masculine urges are "fighting" my feminine urges. I feel my masculine urges are "losing".

What is happening to me? What do I do?

2007-01-03 13:04:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would prefer answer from someone who is familiar with genetics.

2007-01-03 12:30:49 · 16 answers · asked by mrsshapiro 1

2007-01-03 12:16:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

can I see a friend if I am not on that persons's IM friend's list?

2007-01-03 12:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by eva h 1

And it drives you nuts... especially when someone you know is cute and you want to jump them every time you see them.

2007-01-03 11:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by girl with a gun 2

2007-01-03 11:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most Gay's I have came across have been a awful nancy pancy - if you know what I mean...just in it - to be in it ... so to speak...what do you think ..are there any Real Gay people out there.. or is it all an act...

2007-01-03 11:44:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone wanted to be someone else so much that they were almost jeoulus. I want to be this girl I know, and I'm a guy. I think she is so cute and has so much going for her. She doesn't see it, but I wish she saw what I saw in her. It makes me ill sometimes that I can never be her. And yes I think I'm in love with her, but we can't be any more than friends.

2007-01-03 11:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Kari 4

im 14...and im a lesbian...i noe this for sure cuz evr since da 2nd grade! (i noe yung ) all i had were these feeling for other girls never had any of those feelings 4 a guy ever 0.o....and im really tom-boyish type..... i think some how my parents kno im a les i jus ha this but im still scared 2 tell them cuz im not sure....i kinda hav da perfect life goin on here and stuff nd i dont wanna mess it up im not popular mayb but im "socialy known" and i hav i alot of frens sum r ok wit pplz bein gay but most of em arent .....im just really scared 2 lose everything (frens mostly) i hav now ...and how every1 will think of me after. i quess i just plain out scared of how every1z guna react i dont wanna get pushed away....x[ (srri itz so long i jus need lik advice cuz im diein ova hea keepin diz secret 4 ssooooooo looooooong )

2007-01-03 11:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by KraZiiWun=D 1

If your sex life is private then what is the idea of advertising it by "coming out".
seems stupid to me

2007-01-03 11:36:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried several times to be friends with gay men. I am a married woman, happily so. The men I have found have been married to women before, and one has 4 kids! How do I find a nice gay man just to chat with?

2007-01-03 11:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For those who do not know, pegging refers to a woman penetrating her man with a strap on. I want to know how common is this practice among heterosexual couples, because me and my wife enjoy it about once a month.

Also, are there any studies that show how common is this practice?

2007-01-03 11:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by Nick 1

So my question is, is there a sign, and what does the deaf culture think about gays, lesbians, bis, and transgendered people?

2007-01-03 11:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Bedam 2

i wish I was a gay guy. All the super cute dudes I have came across that make heads turn are gay. I'm getting so jealous. I want to be a gay guy. Why are gay guys so HOTT and NICE? They come off as the ideal guy for any girl then we find out that they are gay. they are usually nice, sweet, they act like a gentleman in public, they don't degrade women, they dress nice. RRRRRRRRrrrrr i'm mad jealous. You gay guys are lucky.

2007-01-03 11:03:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, well i've just found that im bisexual, and possibly more attracted to females? I mean, its no so much the sex but i find us females are more understanding and not sex orientated, well the problem that i have is how the hell do i tell my parents? I'm 16) None of my family know and im sure they dont even have a hunch because i still like girly things like shopping, makeup, it's not like i want to be a male, im happy as a female doing feminine things. Do you guys think maybe it's just a phase because of bad experiences with males..but i still have crushes on guys? HELP!
Ok, im sidetracking .. well i know my mother wouldn't have a problem with it (hopefully) but I know my dad will,... well i did find some of his magazines with lesbians... but how will he react if his daughter is one? hope there are dads out there who can answer too.
So DADS out there, how would you react?
BROTHERS too?



Thanks so much in advance.

2007-01-03 11:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by Staci 1

2007-01-03 11:01:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

im out and my mom cought me witha gurl.but my dad said he has ll was known

2007-01-03 10:36:26 · 14 answers · asked by Josie__x 1

i mean there hate is not based on racism but logical facts like the fact that gay people dont care about gods opinion over them and they dont care about having children of there own and so on
i mean we should respect them just a much as we respect the gays

2007-01-03 10:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was in a relationship with a guy for two years but we broke up3 months ago cause i caught him cheating dozen of times, now im having a trust problem i mean alot of really hot guys try to approach me but i turn them down and say im not ready for a relationship or having a new guy in my life im so scared to fall in love again and get my heart broken Any good advice a really need it cause i gotta snap out of my fear or ill never love again.

2007-01-03 10:29:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 10:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by shadowboston2002 1

I am doing some research and I was wondering what you call your partners. I don't mean like so me girl or guy you just have dated, but your life partner. If you are not able to marry and cant be wives or husbands what do you consider each other to be? life partners, girlfriends, boyfriends, not just lovers I am sure. I hope I asked that question right. and by the way, I am not be gay but I am so for the gay comunity. so this isn't to hurt or offend anyone and their life style choices.

2007-01-03 10:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you have sex

2007-01-03 09:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by $ Money Mike$ 2

ok te other day istayed at my friends house and i slep with her and i do nothin to make her do it. but when i woke up my bra was on the sillien fan i reach to gt she said let do it agian so i was like ok............ the big poit is she is straight or thats what i thought but i think she is avodin me she aint answerin my texts on calls. is she mad at me???????????

2007-01-03 09:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by Josie__x 1

We have been friend for years...and almost kissed a few times. There are time when I want to say something but...

2007-01-03 09:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 1

As you've gotten older how have your views on and relationships with the opposite sex changed?

2007-01-03 09:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by rhonda y 6

Been in a lesbian relationship for over two years, I am 25 she is 21. She is not ready to move out yet and her mum is insanely over protective and totally against our relationship. She only lets her out about once a week and I come over in the mornings when her mum is at work. The whole time we've been together she has been on her *** to get rid of me. Well just before christmas she told me she still loves me but can't do this anymore. It's only been a week and I still at least want to remain friends. But when I call her or text her she doesn't answer. Why won't she even speak to me anymore? I've done nothing wrong? What is her reason? What is she possibly feeling inside? Anyone been in this situation before? The last time I talked to her was new years eve. She called me after work and said talk to you/see you on thursday since we work together. What does that mean? What is she thinking?
Please help, I'm in so much pain, trouble eating, sleeping and feel sick and sad

2007-01-03 09:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a happy person, I have strong morals, most of my friends call me a prude. But for some reason I keep getting hit on by bisexual or lesbian women, (I get hit on a lot by men too but that doesn't bother me as much). I also keep having couples invite me to join them in bed. I always refuse, I try to be polite about it & explain that I’m in a relationship & I love my boyfriend & I'm not into that kind of thing anyway, it's aginst my beliefs. But it keeps on happening. I don't dress scandalously, I go to church, I'm nice to everyone.

This is driving me crazy!!! This has been happening to me since I was 15, but in the last three months it's gotten much, much worse. I asked my close friends & they say I'm not putting out any kind of weird vibe! Does anyone have a clue what is going on here?

2007-01-03 09:24:53 · 19 answers · asked by Marie 3

2007-01-03 09:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm wondering what labels I should be using to describe myself.
I like girls, and have only slept with girls, but I do have a little interest in guys. It hasn't come up to try anything out.
I like to wear skirts, but not in any way to look feminine, and certainly not anything remotely short. I wear dark colors, and I'd never be caught dead in anything with a flamboyant pattern.
I've got long hair.

Outside, I am male, and I fully plan to keep my male parts.
Inside, I feel I am a mix of boy and girl, and it's not a constant mix, it fluctuates day to day. It's always a mostly boy mixture.

What are my labels, and where do I fit in? How would you treat me on the street? At work? In a group?
Who should I associate with? How do I go ahead and just enjoy myself as I am?

What am I?!

2007-01-03 09:07:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my friends, and I think their awsome, and I can trust them with anything. But I don't know if I should tell them that I'm bi. It took my 2 years to tell me old friends, and now I'm in a new school. I've only known my friends for 3 months disculding 2 of my old friends who already know. Should I tell them???

2007-01-03 08:29:55 · 30 answers · asked by Lyena L 2