Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

3yrs ago i was in love with this lady,i know she loved me too coz she always sent me signs but never came &ask me out,she was waiting for me but am very unbrave,i was always so afraide of the rejection & of feeling gulity after i take some1 from her husband (yes she is married)she always used to tell every1 that am her gf behind my back,till that day there was a party in a park &she sang this song
love is all around
the song says
I feel it in my fingers, I feel it in my toes
Well, love is all around me, and so the feeling grows
It's written on the wind, it's everywhere I go
So if you really love me, come on and let it show

You know I love you, I always will
My mind's made up by the way that I feel
There's no beginning, there'll be no end
Cos on my love you can depend

I see your face before me as I lay on my bed
I kinda get to thinking of all the things you said
You gave your promise to to me and I gave mine to you

now after 3yrs i feel am ready to tell her i love u

2007-01-03 17:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 6

or should i just sit still?

2007-01-03 16:54:54 · 14 answers · asked by D *)sukky 3

2007-01-03 16:33:16 · 5 answers · asked by Barbara 1

I'm trying not to judge the militant, heterosexual, reprobates but it seems they insist on "flaunting" their sexuality. This is a grave offense to my faith. Should I lobby for laws prohibiting their unions and try to infuse my faith into all local and national laws or should I just respect the fact that humanity falls on an enormously diverse scale with different permutations, variations, and orientations?
Any advice you could proffer would be greatly appreciated -- as you know it's important to know who God wants us to hate.

2007-01-03 16:31:29 · 34 answers · asked by Summrboy 1

i work with this girl and she has a boyfriend. i think she is straight but i get the weirdest vibes from her. when im not looking she will stare at me. when i look back at her she looks away...like she doesnt want me to know. she always makes sure i notice her at work. usually when she comes to talk to me she has someone else is there with her...ive hung out with her a couple times with friends but the vibes dont seem as bad. any one have any clue whats up with her? maybe its just me crushing.

2007-01-03 16:15:12 · 12 answers · asked by supervixen 1

I know i asked an question earlyer about would u cheat on ur girl if another girl was showing u more attention. I would never do that of course cuz im older and tired of playing games now the ? is my girl is a stud and i want to give her a promise ring but im not sure how to do it i want her to know that i want to be with her for ever. my family realy dont aprove bcuz were lesbians but becuz she black and im white but i have always dated black women but they still dont approve. But to me they dont count bcuz they never been here for me. so my ? is how do i give her a ring and no its not a girly ring she is a stud but its a nice ring. We have been dating for 6 mons but i have know her for 5 years and i think that were ment to be becuz i moved about 3 years ago to the east cost but when i moved back last nov i went to were she lived and seen her and after that we been talking ever sence so i think that we came together for a reason and i want to be with her so how do i give that to her?

2007-01-03 15:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3

This sort of builds on my rebound question. The other thing I had considered was experimenting with another girl. I am not really sure how to attract one. My gfs and I flirt around but none of them are bi. How should I dress? How can I tell if another girl is interested?

2007-01-03 15:53:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What exactly is genderqueer?
Bi-Gender?
Gender-Transgressive?
Transgender? (And how its different from transsexual)
androgyne?
And any terms closely related to these.

2007-01-03 15:44:06 · 10 answers · asked by Miakoda 5

so pure of heart and so close to God. Wow!!!! Seriously--- I remember her as one of the most positive forces the gay community ever had. She made us stand up and say "NO MORE' (LOL--to this day I still will never drink Florida Orange Juice.). She really gelled us into a fighting force and because of her inadequacies she appeared even to the straight population to be a buffoon. Do you think a force like her is needed again? Someone who can really advance our causes by being so stupid and righteous?

2007-01-03 15:39:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

some of my friends are very good friends with bi people. so they would be accepting. but not my family. they dont like gays. and they think bi is not real. they think people just decide that, and its sick. i would never want to date a girl. but i often find other bi girls hot. and i want to hook up with some. i know i like guys. so i am not a lesbian. but i think i like girls too. im confused tho. i would do lots of things with guys. but with girls im not sure. i would never go out with a girl but i would do things. i would make out, and maybe let them eat me out. i kind of want that to happen.. i have no bi friends and i want some. so i can explain this to them. i sound sick but im not. im just really confused. i cant see myself ever eating another girl out. but i would want them to do those things to me. can you give me advice.

2007-01-03 15:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by blondieee b 1

I'm engaged, and somewhere down the road my fiance (who is ftm transgender) and I will be having children. Obviously these children will be concieved through some sort of artificial insemination. We haven't decided how yet (way down the road still), but either will be through anonymous sperm bank or a close friend who would act as an "uncle" to the kid.

If this was your life, how much would you tell the kid about their biological origins? And at what age?

I have my own thoughts, just wondering what others would do... I will pick a best answer and add details later.

2007-01-03 15:12:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe it is.

2007-01-03 15:07:26 · 17 answers · asked by G mon 2

I am a M2F transsexual and know I am an awesome person inside/out. What appears to be hard is the fact that in my home town everyone ends up knowing my past and seems not interested in any form of relationship other then just being friends. I am young, smart, and think I look attractive enough and yet I can see no light with having a good relationship. What should I do to find someone who I can have a relationship with?

P.S. The relationship I want is with a man.

2007-01-03 15:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by brandyleetg 2

I am in a commited gay relationship with a great guy. We have talked about adopting, I just wonder when is the right time. We both have great jobs and we both are level headed and goal oriented. Bringing a child into the relationship seems like a great idea, I just wonder when is the right time or is there?

2007-01-03 14:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you disagree with me, plz give me a reason, and (i would like this more) a website. I havent reaserched about this in a recently, so if there have been any proof that it is a genetic trait, not a choice, tell me please!!

2007-01-03 14:50:10 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting tired of all the homophobic remarks made by men and women. I teach in a huge urban school district and the students there rarely bring up the subject. The adult staff members talk as if they hate gay and lesbian teachers. I have even been in professional development workshops when the presenter used the word f--!

2007-01-03 14:27:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

but u live about an hour away from each other and another girl was giving u more attention would you cheat on ur girlfriend?

2007-01-03 14:21:18 · 20 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3

I am not transexual, I do love dressing as a woman and go out in public a lot.

2007-01-03 14:14:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people masturbate......

2007-01-03 14:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by hatake_hemay 1

During the few times I've taken her (him) out to the movies, I've attempted to see whats down there and whats dominant, and it will be just too awkward for me to ask her (him) what feels best. Her (his) protusional lump of a penis gets semi hard, and her (his) clitoris the size of a bee. Suggestions?*-

2007-01-03 14:04:24 · 20 answers · asked by o 1

I'm gay although I fell I can't tell many people because tell tease and hate you but I really like this guy at school and I can't tell him that I'm gay and I want to know if he is or else if he is straight he'll just laugh at me.....

2007-01-03 14:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by Yoshi! =] 1

Hoe can you tell (gay dar masters)?
Ok its easy to tell if a guy is gay if hes femy but how can you tell if a MASCULINE or BUTCh guy is gay im only attracted to manly gay guys but I CANT TELL THEM FROM STRAIGHTS how can you tell lol ... Is there a body language response a look i just dont get it.

2007-01-03 14:00:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 13:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by mar4u103 2

And if you got into a relationship and discovered later that the other person was a big time drinker would you stay or would you leave?

2007-01-03 13:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 13:39:06 · 3 answers · asked by ccccccccdddddgggggrrrrwwwsszcvbn 1

I was wondering if it was normal for me to be attracted to guys who can be rough and mean if they wanted to and who are possessive and protective?

If never dated anyone really since i'm still in high school and not out, but lately i've been really attracted to the thought of a really masculine man like this.

The reason i'm asking is cuz i've asked questions about this type of attraction before and ppl have on here (yahoo answers) have kind of said that is weird like i need a father figure or something.

But I don't want an old man like my dad just someone older. what do u guys think?

2007-01-03 13:33:33 · 21 answers · asked by Tyler 1

so i want to kiss this girl and she is a lesbian i like her but i dont know if she likes me. i want to ask her out and kiss her. what should i do?

2007-01-03 13:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by Julie 2

My cousin & I are really close or at least that is what I thought. I think that he is gay but is afraid to say. I have never gave him the impression that he would not be accepted. Some of the other family members might not, but he knows that me & my mom do not feel the same as others. His friends are all open but he acts like he is not. I have another cousins that is gay & he acts like he can't stand him. Some of the hints: they have a one bedroom apartment & they sleep in the same room, they both wear matching silver bands on there fingers, he is always talking about him-never about women anymore. I just don't know if it is my place to say anything or not.

2007-01-03 13:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by ndhlp28 1

my girlfriend wont have a kid with me, she told me to produce on A sexually...ny ideas?

2007-01-03 13:28:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jay 2

I just finished Augusten Burroughs' book "Dry" and I LOVED it. Up until now I havent been much of a reader but that book made me want to get out and buy another great book preferably by and about our peeps. I'd love a really sweet love story or just a great read. Any suggestions? BTW -- I've read everything by David Sedaris so if you can think of anything else I'd be very appreciative. Thanks to all~

2007-01-03 13:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Summrboy 1