During the few times I've taken her (him) out to the movies, I've attempted to see whats down there and whats dominant, and it will be just too awkward for me to ask her (him) what feels best. Her (his) protusional lump of a penis gets semi hard, and her (his) clitoris the size of a bee. Suggestions?*-
2007-01-03 14:04:24 · 20 answers · asked by o 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
1. Hermaphrodite??? Most people prefer the term intersex. Is your partner really okay with the term you are using? I've been told its not "PC"
2. Pronouns- has your partner told you which pronouns they would prefer you to use? When meeting someone (in general) who you can't immediately decipher which pronouns to use, you should ALWAYS ask!! Its awkward, of course. But very much appreciated by the person. If your partner prefers not to use either masculine or feminine pronouns, you should know that there are gender neutral pronouns as well. "ze" instead of he or she, and "hir" (pronounced 'hear') instead if his or her.
3. Communication is the only way to go. With anyone who is intersex, transgender, and perfectly biologically/traditionally gendered, there's no way to know unless you ask. What one (biological) woman likes is going to be entirely different from what the next (biological) woman likes. When you have a partner who's sex/gender are not (I don't want to say 'normal', but can't think of another word), it makes things even more unique. If its too awkward to even bring up, you probably shouldn't be sleeping with them. Sounds cliche, and it is, but following that golden rule saves a lot of heartache.
Also, keep in mind.... just like the rest of us, your partner is likely to know some things that s/he likes, and there are probably some things that you two will discover in bed that s/he hadn't thought of before. So, talk it out, find out where ot start, but don't be afraid to adventure!!
2007-01-03 15:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hermaphrodite Dating
2017-01-11 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such an abundance of misinformation. 1. I would love to date (and procreate, if spouse would let me) with a true hermaphrodite or hermaphrodite. 2. then the offspring could procreate with themselves. 3. then those offspring could procreate with each other. 4. then we all could mass breed and create an army from the new gene pool. 5. then we could take over the world and change humanity forever to a much more intelligent race where dating and marriage is based on sexual desires and not love and caring. Just kidding folks. Just wanted to add my little bit of misinformation too. A true hermaphrodite requires 98% of a dual reproductive system, thus making a single reproductive system of the two. A hermaphrodite requires only enough of a dual reproductive system to accomplish self-reproduction propagation. ANSWER: I'd love it and have done it and my spouse married one. And my daughter thinks she lives in the coolest family ever because of it. Did someone just call me a worm?????
2016-03-29 06:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if the person you're dating is a he or a she? You really just have to be gental when asking. And then don't do the handjob ECk disgusting expecially when youre only dating. Do that like when you Know if he's / she
2007-01-03 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change it up do one thing one night and another the next. Im sure body language will tell you wich one she or he prefers. Thats what I do with my boyfriend and what i have done with chicks, just pay close attention to body alnguage. Im sure if he or she had a preferance they would have said something. And if they do just be honest and ell them you just want to make them feel good and to be comfortable
2007-01-03 14:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by cuetee220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two places to check when dealing with a sexual deviant who's modified their natural genitalia.
1. Look for bulges in the rear of their underwear (looks like golf balls). A true man will fill his underwear dick hole in the front rather than the back.
2. Check to see if it's balls are taped to it's stomach. This is very easy as stomach taped balls tend to bulge in the front and are harder to hide than a tucked sack.
Remember, anatomically speaking, it's easier to dig a hole than build a pole. So chances are your mate had his penis slit and turned inward, which is probably where you should be burying your head.
2007-01-03 14:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by jesus_pig 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If you like them enough, just ask what they like. Or try things and ask if it feels good. I'm sure they're used to people not being sure of what to do and they'll appreciate that you asked.
2007-01-03 14:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by raduodogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask. Especially if the relationship is going to go any where.
2007-01-03 14:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better do both of the acts to yourself, you'll then wake up.
2007-01-03 14:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have two hands; why not do both?
2007-01-03 14:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cosmic I 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋