I'm gay although I fell I can't tell many people because tell tease and hate you but I really like this guy at school and I can't tell him that I'm gay and I want to know if he is or else if he is straight he'll just laugh at me.....
2007-01-03 14:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by Yoshi! =] 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh BTW. I'm 13 years old soo I don,t think some of the answers will work............
2007-01-03 14:10:12 · update #1
It's tough being different. Why not make friends with him and without pushing the issue see what happens.
If he is interested in you, he will let you know or your gaydar will let you know.
Just don't flit and flounce around, whatever your proclivities are or you will reap the whirlwind of people who are afraid of you and what they perceive gay people to be.
Lots of my friends are gay and it is tough on them. No one would choose to take on the trouble it causes them. As far as I am concerned, I have no more interest in what they do in the privacy of their relationships or in those of heterosexuals. God loves us all.
Personally, I don't believe anyone - regardless of persuasion - have the right to have sexual relationships out of marriage. I guess that is why I believe that if gay persons wish to get married then it's their life and not my decision. Good luck, son!
2007-01-03 14:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Donald W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just ask a general question like speculating if an actor is gay and get an openion on it from this guy. If he's really agianst it, well duck. He can't be gay. Even if he isn't gay but open to the idea that other ppl can be, hopefully he won't freak out when you ask him the question. Good luck
2007-01-03 22:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no way you can tell if someone is gay just by looking at them-I'm sure you know this-Ask. But you're right to be nervous.
I applaud you for being true to yourself, especially in high school. Its one of the hardest things to do.
2007-01-03 22:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he has dated any girls yet.Or you can just start a conversation with him and then bring up the subject regarding his sexuality.Ask in a joking way,"Are you gay?!Hahaha"See his reaction.
2007-01-03 22:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't find this out without risking getting beat up. So you have to ask yourself, is he worth the risk. Or invite him to study with you. When you get him alone you will get a better read on him.
2007-01-03 22:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Trip S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this will sound weird but my friend is reading this book and shes been telling me about it and its called "is he or isn't he" and the whole book is trying to figure out if this guy is gay so like read it. its fiction but the whole book's based off your problem.
2007-01-03 22:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him stare give him the look then approach him talk while smiling get kinda close and if it dosent work or he freaks out technically you dint touch him ask him out etc so he has nothing to run his mouth about go for it get his number and ask if he wants 2 chill sometime.
2007-01-03 22:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's dangerous, dude.. He might beat you up, if he's a straight guy... Beware !!!
2007-01-03 23:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by yusdz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoshi: Are you gay?
The guy: yes, I am gay!
moral of the story..... JUST ASK HIM!!!!
2007-01-03 22:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him drunk let h talk as u ask g. then wait for u answer and also by the way thay walk .
2007-01-03 22:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋