3yrs ago i was in love with this lady,i know she loved me too coz she always sent me signs but never came &ask me out,she was waiting for me but am very unbrave,i was always so afraide of the rejection & of feeling gulity after i take some1 from her husband (yes she is married)she always used to tell every1 that am her gf behind my back,till that day there was a party in a park &she sang this song
love is all around
the song says
I feel it in my fingers, I feel it in my toes
Well, love is all around me, and so the feeling grows
It's written on the wind, it's everywhere I go
So if you really love me, come on and let it show
You know I love you, I always will
My mind's made up by the way that I feel
There's no beginning, there'll be no end
Cos on my love you can depend
I see your face before me as I lay on my bed
I kinda get to thinking of all the things you said
You gave your promise to to me and I gave mine to you
now after 3yrs i feel am ready to tell her i love u
2007-01-03 17:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you should take your chances ask her: are you in love with me because i'm really attracted to you even though you are married to a man. or just try to get her by her self and talk to her face 2 face. dont be scared cause if you really like someone you should hide it youll never know what might happen.
2007-01-04 02:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by SKITTLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her how you feel, but keep in mind she is married. If she was not in love with this man, wouldn't she have left him years ago? Until she is free and ready to move on to her next relationship, I think that you should move on, too. It will be hard but for you but if she truly had romantic feelings for you, she would not be with someone else.
P.S, I think "confused" is just that- perhaps about his sexuality..
2007-01-04 01:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you guys still in contact ? anyway it seems that you let love pass you by it happend sometimes i hope she does not have anyone else that she cares about u also have to think about not beeing selfish know that your ready for her love she made have moved on but again where is love its just is
good luck
2007-01-04 05:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never too late to express love.
2007-01-04 01:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Raniqueen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't hurt to tell her, but if she is happily married, i can't see her ruining a marriage just for a fling or for the unknown with you.. prepare to be disappointed, but if you want to get it off your chest, then tell her!
2007-01-04 01:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can and hope she hasn't moved on. She might have though, but then at least you'll have closure and can move on.
2007-01-04 14:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She figured out she is not a lesbian and got a real man. You should too.
2007-01-04 01:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it!
2007-01-04 01:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Heather K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋