some of my friends are very good friends with bi people. so they would be accepting. but not my family. they dont like gays. and they think bi is not real. they think people just decide that, and its sick. i would never want to date a girl. but i often find other bi girls hot. and i want to hook up with some. i know i like guys. so i am not a lesbian. but i think i like girls too. im confused tho. i would do lots of things with guys. but with girls im not sure. i would never go out with a girl but i would do things. i would make out, and maybe let them eat me out. i kind of want that to happen.. i have no bi friends and i want some. so i can explain this to them. i sound sick but im not. im just really confused. i cant see myself ever eating another girl out. but i would want them to do those things to me. can you give me advice.
2007-01-03 15:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by blondieee b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, you're a blonde!?!?!?
2007-01-03 15:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but "growing into" your sexuality can be scary! You don't sound sick at all! You sound like me when I was 14 :) It sounds like you just want to experiment. Maybe you could get together with your friends and their bi friends and hang out or something. Just get the bi girl's number and call her up and start talking, just as friends, if you really want someone to talk to. I would wait a while to make sure she was trustworthy, and then tell her. She would probably make you feel a lot better. Ask yourself these questions...Why wouldn't I date a girl? Why wouldn't I go down on a girl, but I'd let one go down on me? Is it because my parents and other people would hate that and think it is sick? Or is it because I really think that it is gross? Normally, if you think you might like kissing a girl and "hooking up," then eating her out wouldn't turn you off. But no one's normal. Just try to get some friends who understand, talk about it, and find out who you are. No need to rush. Everyone's confused at some point, even straight people :)
2007-01-03 15:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I kind of had the same thing happen to me with a couple of Friends but I just started out after a few drinks and we would show off for the guys and kiss then we would play truth or dare...and just have fun. But nothing got out of hand and I am not gay and I love men also have 3 kids and just got married but I cant say I never experimented ! If the timing is right and you are with the right person who wants to have fun to it will happen.
2007-01-03 15:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Angeline R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bi and that's fine. You need more help than I as a gay man can give you...wait for the lesbians to answer you..I'm sure they'll have good advice for you.
2007-01-03 15:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you liek both genders then that means your bi-sexual. If you just want to play around with girls then go ahead. If you want a serious relationship and you dont want a girl for that just date a guy. It's all up to you. It's your life and your sexuality.
2007-01-03 15:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is that most people are actually bi, but are culturally conditioned to live as heterosexual. There are a percentage though who are exclusively hetero or homosexual. I haven't thought about where the lines are drawn, but I think it's more of a continuum from homosexual to heterosexual. The idea of a dichotomy or hard and fast lines is not natural.
2007-01-03 15:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are confused!!!
and its ok.....you obviously are curious....and there are a lot of complications that come with curiousity...but its hard to let go what others might think...but you have to be true to yourself....dont rush into anything....if things are meant to happen...they will... but as long as you are open minded...things will always be an experience.....good luck:)
2007-01-03 16:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by jofefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 22:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the good witch said to all the munchkins in munchingbox land:
"Come out, come out, wherever you are"
(PS Your a big old dyke momma, get over it and munch that box sister)
2007-01-03 15:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bi
2007-01-03 16:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're bi. and there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-03 15:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋