Been in a lesbian relationship for over two years, I am 25 she is 21. She is not ready to move out yet and her mum is insanely over protective and totally against our relationship. She only lets her out about once a week and I come over in the mornings when her mum is at work. The whole time we've been together she has been on her *** to get rid of me. Well just before christmas she told me she still loves me but can't do this anymore. It's only been a week and I still at least want to remain friends. But when I call her or text her she doesn't answer. Why won't she even speak to me anymore? I've done nothing wrong? What is her reason? What is she possibly feeling inside? Anyone been in this situation before? The last time I talked to her was new years eve. She called me after work and said talk to you/see you on thursday since we work together. What does that mean? What is she thinking?
Please help, I'm in so much pain, trouble eating, sleeping and feel sick and sad
2007-01-03 09:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sorry to hear your in the pain you are because I am in something different but similar. I have someone very close to me that is very hard to see or talk to them. But my only advice is to just be there for them and try not to lose contact. They may have a lot of things on their mind that they need to sort out and the situation may take time. If they said that they love you they probably do just be there for them and let them too know that you love them. Love also means patience, understanding and listening. Be thankful that you see them every week, it's starting to go on every 2 to 3 weeks for me to see my love.
2007-01-03 09:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Noclue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is: this woman is 21 and letting her mother rule her life. She's an adult and should be making her own life and her own decisions. You are stuck in a 3-some and not likely to win. She has to grow up and choose.
2007-01-03 09:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 22:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like possibly that there is something she has been keeping from you. If she can't be honest and say it like it is, and speak to you, then there must be something that she is hiding that she is ashamed about. She might be trying to spare your feelings.
2007-01-03 09:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on. It takes time to heal but this is why I stay away from newbies. I stay with those that know who they are.
2007-01-03 09:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said that she would talk to you than she will. Maybe her mom made her do and say what she did.
2007-01-03 09:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels like she isn't really a lesbien.
2007-01-03 09:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw thats really sad... email me i_love_orange_crush_05@yahoo.com... i kinda have a similar thing...
2007-01-03 16:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about that *****......lets you and me hook up!!!
2007-01-03 09:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by CURVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋