Has anyone wanted to be someone else so much that they were almost jeoulus. I want to be this girl I know, and I'm a guy. I think she is so cute and has so much going for her. She doesn't see it, but I wish she saw what I saw in her. It makes me ill sometimes that I can never be her. And yes I think I'm in love with her, but we can't be any more than friends.
2007-01-03 11:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have always had a bit of gender identity issues. but not to the extent of some I guess. In fact, if i were a female, I would be lesbian.
2007-01-03 11:42:29 · update #1
I think every male wants to be a lesbian, just FYI..lol.
More or less, there was a study a while ago, about this sort of thing. Its called person envy. Meaning, she is everying you wish you had in life. It doesn't always mean that your gay, or that your in love with her, but maybe moreso in love with her life.
I know what you feel however. I have the same issue with my girlfriend, that she has so much going for her, and no matter how much I try, I don't think she will ever love me the same way I love her. No one can really see themselves for what you can see, they can only see what they want to see, and when they finally DO see what you see, maybe only then can you actually feel that what you saw in them, was something. Other than that..exchanging souls, you can never do.
2007-01-03 11:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I'll never be as pretty as a GG so it hurts.
I fantasized about swapping souls since I was 10, when I realized what was wrong with me.
By the way, you really can't be sure if you would be a lesbian. You can assume, but you wouldn't know for sure until you got on hormones and got over certain sexual phobias (if you have them). That will reveal your true sexuality.
2007-01-03 20:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by girl with a gun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I don´t . I feel totally fine the way I am even when there are lot of times when things turn the way I don´t expect. Anyway it makes me be stronger.
2007-01-03 19:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsilverangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like who i am, but i sometimes look at the other guys at my school and wish i was them cuz they are cute and popular. i'm kinda a geek
2007-01-03 20:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm happy with who I am.
2007-01-03 20:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-01-03 19:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
but like any other guy,
wish my pencil was bigger !
2007-01-04 03:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋