ok te other day istayed at my friends house and i slep with her and i do nothin to make her do it. but when i woke up my bra was on the sillien fan i reach to gt she said let do it agian so i was like ok............ the big poit is she is straight or thats what i thought but i think she is avodin me she aint answerin my texts on calls. is she mad at me???????????
2007-01-03 09:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by Josie__x 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'd give her time. sometimes we don't really want what we think we want. meaning, she could really like you sexually and wanted to try what it was like to have sex with you. but sex is a very VERY intimate act. And she might not have been ready for sex with a girl or sex in general. Since she said she's straight, then a million things are going through her mind. Mostly *what does that make me?* The act could have made her question her whole sexuality. Remember when you were questioning yours? She could be ashamed, scared, embarressed. Like I said earlier, give her time to reflect on it. If she's not answering the phone maybe after a few days or a week surprise her and go somewhere private to talk, maybe get a coffee and sit in the car at night. I had some of my best talks in the car with a latte at 2am. Don't push her, just hear her out if she feels like talking. But if she's shy, get her to talk about it by asking questions and suggest how the experience was for you. good luck.
2007-01-03 12:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might just be digesting what just happened and isn't ready to talk to you yet. Or, I'm sorry to say she might regret it and isn't able to face you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Try leaving her a message telling her that you still want to be friends and that this doesn't have to effect your friendship. If she's a true friend she'll respond eventually.
2007-01-03 10:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess Men aren't the only ones with intamacy problems!
2007-01-03 11:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wanted to try lesbian s*x and after she did now she doesnot need u
2007-01-03 11:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs time to think.
2007-01-03 09:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will call.
2007-01-03 09:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes scared
2007-01-03 09:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry she dont like u no more haha
2007-01-03 10:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by duckie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's confused.
2007-01-03 09:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋