I'm wondering, in a long-term serious relationship or marriage, how much, if any, of a right do you have to ask your significant other/spouse not to do something that you think is dangerous?
For instance, my fiance really wants a motorcycle. I really don't want him to have one because I would like to keep him with me for a very long time. Also, we saw a really bad bike wreck on the belt way a few months ago... I saw a guy pretty much splattered all over the highway. It made me sick to my stomach.
My fiance says it is selfish of me to try to tell him he can't do something that he really wants to do (own and ride a motorcycle). I recognize that he is correct. I know I shouldn't be trying to control what he wants to do with his life. After all, we only get one life.
But this comes down to religion, because he doesn't seem to care that much about taking chances (he thinks he's going to have everlasting life in Heaven anyway). I think this life is all we get..
Thoughts?
2007-09-24
02:35:33
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Linz ♥ VT
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