He loves to go shopping with me. Picks out what goes with what. Carefully collects perfume. Prefers to shower with a women's perfumed shower gel. Is very conscious of his clothes, if they match and why and how; color co-ordinates his glasses to his keychain and jacket... Knows every song by Sandra Cretu, Villiage People and Dalida (Greek-Egyptian singer). Belly dances. Loves interior decoration. LOVES buying and collecting shoes. I thought he was for me, but once we had married last Spring, he tells me that when he married me, he intended it to not be a true marriage. Tells me that he left his country and came here based on me, "To get away from it all a while". He is depressed; goes to a counsellor for it. Does not even touch me let alone be intimate with me unless I beg him (which I stopped doing!)...for days! When asked when we will build a family (we've been engaged for almost 3 yrs), he says that he does not want to. "I should just sit in the desert." he said. Any advice?
2006-12-15
07:28:42
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender