Pregnancy - March 2007

When i had my son,i was told my episiotomy was closed wrong,apparently it opened back up,i always complained about it before sore but no1 checked it,yesterday it hurt very bad,i looked and its a gapping hole!I mean my insides look as if they are falling out...Very sick i know,it also looks infected and feels infected....BUT heres the strange part,Im 18months post...i know there is no way it could be anything else...so my question is how is it possible to be this bad at 18months post?is there anyway it can be fixed?!its gross!I cant go to the hospital until thursday either so im in desperate need of answers.

2007-03-12 09:06:32 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda 2

long story short, me and my girl have never had protected sex, and for the first few times i was always paranoid and so she took the day after pill for me, twice...and i know its not good...shes set up appointments to get the pill and its about 2 weeks away, since last time she took the EC weve had sex twice, each time still not on the pill or with protection (i know not good) and i have indeed been withdrawing each time and i know that the pre *** is a chance, but she doesnt have concerns and it freaks me out and im really paranoid cuz i know neither of us want/can afford to have a baby...anyways, lately within the lst month or so shes been having head rushes she says, like blood rushes to the head and it hurts n shes dizzy kinda...and she doesnt know why, and i asked her wen her last period was and she said she wasnt sure cuz the EC messed her cycle up...can this mean shes pregnant?? im worried, shes not, but she hates it when i freak out and ask about it, wtf am i to do??? help

2007-03-12 09:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by clownwitafrown2 1

ive just been told i had a miscarriage but i cant believe it.

i took 2 tests an both said negative but then i had a blood test done to test for a whole range of things. then i had a 2nd one.
i got both results together, the first sayin i was pregnant, the second sayin i wasnt.

i understand the first 2 tests i ddone at home may have been to early to tell. the doctor asked me if i had any bleedin inbetween the 2 tests an i had, a really painful period that lasted about 10 days. they seem to think this was a miscarriage.

is that possible? how long do they usually last? i just dont know

2007-03-12 09:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am breastfeeding my 6 month old, so I know that it is possible to get pregnant, especially since I have had 3 regular cycles. I had unprotected sex with my husband once last month. I am now about 4 days late for my period. I am experiencing some cramping...which could be from either a pregnancy or period on its way. I am just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to this. I am hoping that this is just a case of breastfeeding making my periods a little off, but they have been regular for 3 cycles now. I know that most women will have a decrease in milk supply...how far long does a pregnancy have to be for this to happen?

2007-03-12 09:00:56 · 6 answers · asked by Trini_^ 3

My friend who is approximently 3 months pregnant is really upset and worried because she is spotting. She says that she doesn't have any cramps. Is spotting normal during pregnancy normal?

2007-03-12 08:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had my tubs cut but it's been 3in 1/2 years and i was just wondering if any one has ever heard of any one conseving after some thing like that.

2007-03-12 08:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by marie 2

I am 10 weeks pregnant and just wanted to know when to expect an ultrasound. I had my first visit today and am scheduled in 2 weeks. Is that when i get an ultrasound?

2007-03-12 08:56:17 · 32 answers · asked by visjac 1

I think I might be pregnant and I'm on the pill.
Will continuing to take the pill until I'm certain if I'm pregnant or not hurt the baby if I am in fact pregnant?

2007-03-12 08:55:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is spotting and what does it look like(be specific plz) and is it dangerous? I'm 6 wks and I'm a little worried.

2007-03-12 08:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by Lostlove 5

2007-03-12 08:49:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone done it? did it actually prevent tearing?

2007-03-12 08:47:29 · 9 answers · asked by dee 3

ok, i know im probably boring you guys with my questions, but understand me im young and i cant get to a doctor at the time, but i've been paranoid after my fist sex encounter, ever since that day ive been stressed and its been a little over a month, now im noticing i have a little swelling in my lower abdomen, and my breast have gotten a little bigger..can someone please help me out with an opinion i know you guys arent doctors, but opinions from people with experience help.
-could it be pregnancy?
had sex once in my life: (feb1st.)
*used a condom
*it was 2 days before my period ended
*then i got my period late, so i got a urine test at the docs and it was negative
-my period came and it was lighter and shorter than usual, but they tell me stress can cause this
Symptoms:
*well i've gained weight (will u gain more than 5 pounds in a month if you were pregnant?)
*frequent urination
*a little nausea
*vaginal discharge clear/ sometimes white
* lower abdomen swelling/mass and some pain

2007-03-12 08:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 08:43:55 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant, and I say I'm pretty small and really not showing yet. I do have a baby bump. Some people say it looks like I'm going to carry low so I'm going to have a boy.. and some people say my belly is too small for a pregnant woman who's almost 19 weeks(4 months-3 weeks I believe) so I'm going to have a girl since girls tend to show really late. Also they say if your belly is pointy you will have a boy and if it's oval looking it will be a girl.... I'm not due for an ultra sound for another two weeks... Could someone please share their stories regarding these old wives tales... also tell me if people are guessing then turn out to be wrong.

2007-03-12 08:40:05 · 23 answers · asked by ~mother of 2 beautiful girls~ 3

how much would it cost for a 16 year old girl to have an abortion if she is under 9 weeks?

2007-03-12 08:38:52 · 50 answers · asked by AARON D 2

I am 2wks late i am sooo scared my big sister has a baby but she told me to wait to have sex. But i wouldn't listen!!! my sister had her baby at 16!!!! she told me not to follow in her footstepz but i think i did how can i tell if i'm pregnant and how can i tell my big sister that i think i'm pregnant.

2007-03-12 08:32:13 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Mrs.Brown♥ 1

i am taking prenatal pills i took one about 10 mins ago with my lunch, but lunch didnt stay long no thanks to morning sickness.....should i take another pill...since i lost mine...lol

2007-03-12 08:31:01 · 19 answers · asked by cuddlebunny_0023 1

i'm the only one in my family that doesn't have children. i don't want to wait like 5 to 10 years then decide to have a child because my child will not be around his/her cousins ages. what is making me change my mind- when this is what i wanted until now? how do i deal with the feelings? i'm too scared to take a pregnancy test because i kinda know the results and i'm still running from the fact that pregnancy is very likely. i know that everything happens for a reason, i don't believe in abortions, but i am not ready for this. any advice

2007-03-12 08:29:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

What am I supposed to do about it? I'm worried majorly. And I don't want anything bad to happen. I mean, come on..He's only 15.

2007-03-12 08:29:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 08:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 08:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by johnnie w 1

2007-03-12 08:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 08:25:16 · 2 answers · asked by Novida 1

Please only answer if you really know what I am talking about..I am 4 months pregnant and these last 4 months have been so rough. I have horrible "all day" sickness. I have been in the ER several times and can barely function most days. The problem is now I feel like I am upset with the baby. I don't want to hold something against it that isn't its fault. But I feel like this is ruining my life. I want to love it but this pregnancy has been so bad I think all the time I wish I wasn't pregnant. Has anyone else had this feeling and will it go away?? I feel like a horrible person for having such feelings and I would never do anything to jeopordize the baby but pregnancy is getting the best of me. I just need to know this is a normal thing and it will go away....

2007-03-12 08:25:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had an ectopic pregnancy 6 months ago and im not sure when it is safe for me to try again

2007-03-12 08:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by kelly 1

I'm 31 weeks pregnant (32 tomorrow).....

My baby seems to move in very strange ways, sometimes she will be very active for up to 3 hours at a time!! My stomach will look like something out of "Alien", and then she may not move at all for up to 4-5 hours.. Should I be worried, or is she just sleeping off all that energy!?

Another thing is that sometimes, she moves as if she were shaking violently. I told the doctor and he didn't seem worried, but it doesn't feel normal. This has been happening since I was about 25 weeks. Has anyone else had this? Is it normal? Why isn't my doc worried?

I have had a high risk pregnancy, so maybe I'm over-protective of my baby, but I'd love anyone else's opinions!

Thanks!

2007-03-12 08:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Krissyinthesun 5

I am 24 yrs old, and i have a 4 yr old. I was always a single mom and have always had severe depression. I have been with my boyfriend 9 mons and i found out i'm 6-7 weeks pregnant, when i found out with my son, i was afraid but i was sure and somewhere inside of me happy. i am happy with this baby but were not finanically stable and yes we should have thought about that before but whats done is done. we now i feel so alone, i dont feel like i have alot of support and because im so moody and miserable im starting to not like my boyfriend so much, it like all of a sudden im realizing hes too needy, i dont know if its cause im so crabby or depressed or is this how im really feeling... i just wish i had some support and friends to talk to about how im feeling without saying i told u so...

2007-03-12 08:23:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am not ready for a kid it was a mistake…this thing happened I had protective sex but a so scared it don’t sleep and I have a big fear. In Jan 25 I did it I was suppost to get my period those days so I took a test it sai no..the on the 31 I got my period feb I didn’t get my period after I took another test it said now..the march I got my period (mnday) I ended yesterday …but a Friday before my period I took another test it still said no….do you think a stressing to much???because I just have a big fear that lets me down thinkn I might be!

2007-03-12 08:20:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant, and I say I'm pretty small and really not showing yet. I do have a baby bump. Some people say it looks like I'm going to carry low so I'm going to have a boy.. and some people say my belly is too small for a pregnant woman who's almost 19 weeks(4 months-3 weeks I believe) so I'm going to have a girl since girls tend to show really late. Also they say if your belly is pointy you will have a boy and if it's oval looking it will be a girl.... I'm not due for an ultra sound for another two weeks... Could someone please share their stories regarding these old wives tales... also tell me if people are guessing then turn out to be wrong.

2007-03-12 08:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by ~mother of 2 beautiful girls~ 3

I've been on the pill packs for 6-7 months now. I have always been regular as far as my periods and whenever I took the last active pill in my pack, I immediately got my period the day after. Lately, I have been wanting to get pregnant so I have been purposely missing a pill here and there to see if it will happen. I'm in college and it's tough,but I figured now may be the best time. If I don't get pregnant then it's okay too.

So last Saturday, I started feeling queasy and vomited that night. I got cold symptoms and was generally feeling sick all week. This past week I started getting a specific craving for potatoes, I noticed I was going to the bathroom more, I am still feeling nauseated (no cold symptoms anymore), am having hot flashes at night, and when I decided to not take the last 3 pills in the pack I did not have my period like I always do. I am now 4 days late and I'm wondering if I may be pregnant. Am also having cramps. My fiance and I have had sex about 2 times a week. ?

2007-03-12 08:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by flamazon86 2