long story short, me and my girl have never had protected sex, and for the first few times i was always paranoid and so she took the day after pill for me, twice...and i know its not good...shes set up appointments to get the pill and its about 2 weeks away, since last time she took the EC weve had sex twice, each time still not on the pill or with protection (i know not good) and i have indeed been withdrawing each time and i know that the pre *** is a chance, but she doesnt have concerns and it freaks me out and im really paranoid cuz i know neither of us want/can afford to have a baby...anyways, lately within the lst month or so shes been having head rushes she says, like blood rushes to the head and it hurts n shes dizzy kinda...and she doesnt know why, and i asked her wen her last period was and she said she wasnt sure cuz the EC messed her cycle up...can this mean shes pregnant?? im worried, shes not, but she hates it when i freak out and ask about it, wtf am i to do??? help
2007-03-12 09:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by clownwitafrown2 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also when i ask and get paranoid about babies and stuff n ask bout her period and stuff shes just like "look ill tell u if somethings wrong or happens!"
2007-03-12 09:05:29 · update #1
and i tell her to go to the doctor or call and she said she cant cuz 1)she doesnt have time because of school and 2) she doesnt have insurance
2007-03-12 09:06:08 · update #2
Well, I personally got pregnant using the same method you are talking about. I also know THREE other girls that have gotten pregnant the same way. If you plan on having sex, you really, really, really should buy some condoms. I know it sounds like I am preaching, but out of those 3 girls, 2 of them ended up getting abortions and although it is personal opinion, I don't agree with that. If you guys are still at an age where you can't make it to the doctor on your own, you HAVE to be careful with what you are doing.
Forgetting the pregnancy for a moment, there are many, many other reasons to use a condom, even along with the pill. No contraceptive is 100% effective, so you need to be sure to take precautions.
Past that, you should wait until your girlfriend is at least 4 weeks past her last cycle, no matter how off that was. If she is late, she should definitely take a test and see a doctor.
HTH
Jennifer
2007-03-12 14:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by jenleeflem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably getting dizzy from the Ec. GO TO PLANNED PARENTHOOD AND GET SOME CONDOMS! They are free so you won't have anymore excuses. You need to be responsible also and wait until she gets on birth control. There are plenty of other ways you can get off besides having sex. Get Creative.
2007-03-19 08:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright. Girls don't tend to show they're concern bout it but they actually are and they're really worried inside. The chances of her getting pregnant is pretty low so don't worry. Get a glass of water, chill out. Go buy a pregnancy test if you're really worried otherwise wait for her period to come.
2007-03-12 21:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Shaun H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋