13 and i think i'm pregnant!!!!!!!!?

Question

I am 2wks late i am sooo scared my big sister has a baby but she told me to wait to have sex. But i wouldn't listen!!! my sister had her baby at 16!!!! she told me not to follow in her footstepz but i think i did how can i tell if i'm pregnant and how can i tell my big sister that i think i'm pregnant.

sum of ya'll are soo mean yea you right i am too yung to be havin sex but if i am not pregnant then i have learned my lesson i am goin to use rubbers i tried takin care of my nephew 1mo. old by the way and i don't want kids itz hard!!!!! How should i tell her?

Answer 1

Even though I don t know you, I m going to talk to you like someone should have talked to me. I started having sex around your age and ended up having a son in high school pausing my life for a while. It might sound lame, and hard, but the truth is don t have sex period until you are married so you know that you are going to be with that person and don t have to deal with baby daddy mess. The other reason is, well I m quite sure you ve heard of the bible. People make mistakes, but life is about learning from them your sister might be important but your parents are the ones who need to know if you are living with them. Hopefully your not but if so deal with it like many others. Another thing you mentioned that you will start using rubbers, why weren t you using them before? don t you know you can t have unprotected sex anymore? But stay strong and handle your business, you wanted to have sex like a woman, now its time for you to become one at an early age even though you are young this might be your first test in life.

Answer 2

Get a pregnancy test , being two weeks late you should get a deffinit answer. If you are talk to someone. This may be hard to comprehend, if you are you may want to give it up for adoption,or whatever else tricks your trigger. So if your not you learned your lesson-what about STDS, have you thought about those too,after you get one then you'll learn your lesson. Why wouldn't you think of protecting yourself before something like this happened. You are a kid yourself,how would you take care of a baby? Your life as you know it would be over! Hopefully your not for yours and the babys sake. But, I'm sure you'll probably ask that same question in 1-2 months again,because "you would have learned you're lesson"

Answer 3

Just tell her what you're going through. Tell your mom too. The first step is to find out if you actually are pregnant. Have your sister get you a test..maybe it'll be negative and you will have worried for nothing! Just make sure that in the future you hold off on sex until you are married or old enough and financially stable enough to be able to have a child (which is always a possibility if you have sex).

Answer 4

first take a pregnancy test!!!!thats how i found out wow that was not fun i was 15 when i first found out i was pregnant i had the support of my parents i was lucky but chose to keep my baby and now i have a beautifull 9 yo boy and it was hard yes but i could not have an abortion i just couldnt so do what is in your heart!!! IT WONT BE EASY let me tell ya u have to grow up alot faster than u should but in the long run it WILL BE WORTH ALL THE HARD WORK AND SACRIFICES IN THE END i hope this helps good luck sweet heart and your sister will still love you no matter what

Answer 5

Maybe you can join the Yahoo Answers "13 and pregnant" club.

Honestly, all you can do is TELL HER. Don't put it off. Tell her while you still have time to discuss your options. I suggest giving the baby up for adoption, as you are obviously in no position to be raising a child at 13 years old. Give the baby up for adoption and FINISH SCHOOL.

If you are going to continue having sex.. use protection. It's that simple. Use BC pills, and condoms as well to prevent STD's.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Take a pregnancy test. And anyone you tell will be upset but that doesnt mean that they wouldnt be supportive. Telling your big sister might be easier than telling your parents because she has been through it before. Take a test and tell someone so that you can get the care that you need if you are pregnant. But age wise I hope that you are not pregnant. Goodluck with everything

Answer 7

The longer you wait, the worse it is going to be on yourself. Just tell her, as upset as she might be, she will also understand, the reason she'd say she didnt want you to follow in her footsteps is more than likely because she would just want you to live the life she didnt get to, you are too young to be having to deal with the responsibility, you are just about to start a time when you are supposed to be having fun. But just tell her and im pretty sure she will help you out. DONT talk to friends about it ( they know nothing ). Good luck!

Answer 8

No one can ruin your life--but you!
Get with the program, and take good care of yourself. You may have been self-destructive in your actions, especially since you saw your sister go through the same thing---perhaps you don't know any other way to act.
It's the time to look at yourself, and why you are acting this way.
Get some professional counselling. You never know what life has in store for you.
If you are going to have a baby, it deserves a good life and a future of its own, to make it's own choices, just as you have made yours.

Answer 9

You wont be able to tell until about a month. then pregnancy tests are 99 percent accurate. Plus you can get a professional opinion, Try L.D.S. family services. even if your not L.D.S. they will help a lot.

Telling your sister may seem hard, but once you actually do it she probably will understand, having been there herself. Remember she is your sister. if she has any heart (which I bet she has a lot of) she will love you and support you through what you have entered.

Answer 10

Why Ain't you tell me Maya i kno i ain't posed to do dis on dis message thingy but you are my lil sister and i love you to death you and jaden are my world i totally care for you look i'll take you to the doctor tomarrow wit me i have to take jaden any way and i will get you a test done i promise why havn't you told me you were havin sex huh i told you to come to me when you think you are ready!!!!! See you are hard headed you made the biggest misstake eva gurl!!!!!