The father of this child lives in The Netherlands, we always talked about having a baby, that was one of our dreams and our relationship wasn´t always strong. When I found out I was pregnant, I was confused because I already have a 3yr old boy with my ex-husband, but my boyfriend seemed to be quite happy about it, he took me to visit some houses, to a immigration lawyer and we had an argument about something stupid that made us say goodbye with a bad feeling.Now, 1 week after I came back home, he told me that he didn´t want us to live together anymore, that I could count on him for money, but that was all he would provide. I tried to talk to him, but he told me his decision won´t change, no matter what, but he would support any decision I make about this pregnancy.I feel like he gave me 2 options: kill it or keep it and don´t expect anything but money from me.I really don´t know what to do, I thought about abortion, but considering all the risks, I don´t feel comfortable with that.HELP
2007-03-20
10:11:34
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Lady in red
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