I would like honest answers to this, in regards to pregnant girl, and she works, boyfriend doesn't?.........
My daughter and her boyfriend live with his parents, about an hour away..My daughter is almost 8 mos. pregnant, and is working still. Pulling one double a week...The boyfriend(whom we like), has not held a job for more than 6mos tops. He just got laid off last week and wants to "wait" till after the new year to get a job, "cause no one is hiring"(BS, is my response to that)..I think McDonalds etc, is not to his pay scale, he won't work for that amount, but isn't some income better than no income?..He dresses like he's "gangsta", that's fine, but we live in the Bible belt, and unfortunately, you are judged, first impressions, it is just how it is, especially when looking for a job....There are 5 kids, 2 adults, and now with the new dog, 2 dogs in the home. My daughter, and soon to be baby in the house, I cosigned for the car she has, and stated, that when she can't work, if the boyfriend isn't working, and I have to make the car payment, the car comes to my house..(see details)
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15 minutes ago
I am not going to work my a++ off while he just lays around and pay for that car.....she and the car and the baby can move back home. I got her the car so she'd have dependable transportation, safe, and to help her get a better start in life than I sure did, and I pay the insurance...My daughter is not ungrateful, she appreciates this. But, I don't think this is right him not working with a baby coming.....so I refuse to pay the car payment/insurance when she can't work, so he doesn't have to, the car comes here, and I will drive it, its an '05, my car is a 1986, piece of crap.....I would love to hear some real opinions on this......
9 minutes ago
the boyfriend likes the "gangsta" stuff, so he got a beat up light yellow cadillac, that fell apart....she had no transportation to work, relying on his parents, and that is why I wanted her to get the car I co-signed for, but it is in my name/credit for 5yrs..so that is why I will reposses it......ps he has no drivers licence (?)..he's a good kid, but not grown up, thinking that when the baby comes, he'll either become a man, or pull his tail between his legs and cave...Nothing inbetween......
2006-12-26
21:31:16
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