They moved in w/ me when baby was 3 wks old. He's 20, she's 18. They're both the baby, so no exp. w/ younger siblings, or other kids of their own. Jr is 3 mos old. (emerg. c-section)
1st problem was severe colic-I finally bought the expensive formula myself, gave it to him so they could see his incessant crying & g.i. distress WAS colic! (now on WIC) My son insists he "fights sleep." (since less than 2 mos old) I bought 1 of those massaging seats that plays music, & if he's not there, he's on a blanket in the floor. We just had another argument because baby SCREAMED nonstop for 1/2 hr! Neither of them budged! I finally had to intervene & got the usual nasty, hateful attitude from my son who insists his crying that long is ok, that he "knows" how to take care of his son. He claims "people in the street" and "the dr." told him "its ok to let a baby cry!" I told him that's not what the dr meant as normal. I try to teach infant care calmly, nonjudgmental-very resented. Help!??
2006-11-26
16:01:34
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