Adolescent - August 2007

is it gross for guys that are in their 20s to date girls 15 years old?

2007-08-26 16:08:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not only a freshmen in my high school marching band but i'm also a beginner among the freshmen and I know i'm the worst player in my clarinet section. But my parents have paid a lot of money for me to be enrolled in marching band camp and to buy a clarinet and such that I really really really don't want to become an alternate. It's not really about me or my pride, I really don't want to disappoint my parents after they've done so much to get me enrolled. All alternates really go in my marching band is go to the games on the same bus and all but sit in the stands and not play or march. My parents are expecting me to be out there on the field in the games and it's gotten me nervous/scared me to the point where I wake up crying every day because I'm frightened that that day will be the day the teacher will pull me out and tell me I'm gonna be an alternate.
I don't get how the system really works with alternates so if you could tell me, and how i could tell my parents if i'm namedone

2007-08-26 15:30:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 13 year old niece is now living with me and goes to a nice private school that doesn't wear uniforms (it does have a strict dress code though.) My niece made friends with girls I don't approve of them. They are 13 or 14 and trash talk the teachers, get bad grades, stay out past cerfew, give back talk and act like the school's preps. My niece joined the "group" and now she's sort of acting with them. How can i encurage her to hang out with better friends? Some of them smoke and the 14 year olds drink. I am her gaurdian and are worried. She's gone to a few parties that she said were chaparoned but that was before I found out about the drinking and drugs. I have two small children (2 months and 1 1/2.) and I don't want them getting hurt.

2007-08-26 11:33:04 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine 4

summer ends in like 7 hrs and 15 min...wat can i do im bored and hafta stay in my house like all day. i would go tan but its too hot outside...

2007-08-26 10:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i feel bored i get on the internet....but usually it doesn't help and keeps me bored.

or sometimes i just...keep feeling bored

2007-08-26 10:17:56 · 21 answers · asked by oredramo 5

I started my period about 3 years ago and it was irregular but now it hasn't came back and I am not sexually active what is wrong with me please help...

2007-08-26 10:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by crwswimmer 2

im 16. last weekend i got hammered and had unprotected sex. now im afraid that i might be pregnant.. and my friends are only making it worse. im afraid to talk to my mom about it. and i have no way to get pregnancy tests. im supposed to have my period sometime this week or next. should i wait it out and see if i get my period? and what if i skip? should i tell my mom about it? or should i just talk to my older sister first?.. maybe she could get me a test first so i dont get my mother scared.
please dont just lecture me. i know it was a mistake.

2007-08-26 08:30:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if they find out i will be in sooo much trouble!! PLEASE HELP no money for abortion!

2007-08-26 07:23:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

58 million pregnancies are unwanted and unplanned. Thats 50% of total pregnancies every year.

I find the reproduction system driven by sex, lust and toys faulty. Woman dont understand and they feel it is love. However as a man i know i have to be full of lust and horny to engage in intercourse with a woman.

Why a woman dont understand it is hormones, lust, blue films and sex toys which drives sensual pleasures leading to pregnancy?

* If love and sex were pure things, 0% divorce rate should have been a reality.

2007-08-25 18:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so today, as i had lunch with my dad and uncle, they were talking about how old i was and if i lost my virginity and i said no, well my uncle was talking about how he took my cousin, his son, couple yrs back to lose his virginity, and they were talking about taking me, this month or next. I was really uncomfortable with it i mean its my dad and uncle, wdf was i supposed to say. Every male in my family from my mothers, and dads side that i talk to say they lost their virginity that way, by their parents hooking them up with a girl for basically a one night stand.

Is this common among other family's, or is it just my family. Thoughts/opinons/experiences APPRECIATED!

2007-08-25 16:29:49 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do people atomaticly assume that because I am a teenager having sex, that I have no idea the consequences. I know about STD's so I use a condom. I know that you can get pregnant easy, thats why im on birth control. I know the emotional risks and thats why I dont sleep around. I have sex with my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years, after we were both tested for STD's. He also put a promise ring on my finger. So these are my questions.

1. Parents do you honestly think your kids would tell you if they were having sex?

2. Do you think there are any other consequences of teenagers having sex that I havent already thought of?

3. Would you buy your teenager condoms if they asked?

4. If I was to tell you I am white and my boyfriend is black, would that change any of your opinions?

Im probably going to add more as I think of them..

Also anyone that is going to respond to this with stupidity needs to go somewhere else, considering im being mature about this.

2007-08-25 13:58:08 · 19 answers · asked by Shelbi =) 5

All right. First of all, this is our family e-mail, so don't get surprised if "Music" appears answering some guy question or a girl question, since I've got 2 sons and 2 daughters, Well, when he was 3 years old, my youngest son, Will, got kidnapped. We didn't get reunited with him until he was 10 years old. Now he's 14.
I believe that he has have had some trouble getting used to us, but for example, when he was kidnapped, he was a rambunctious toddler that was always making friends and smiling at every one. Now, he is pretty serious, has VERY few friends, rarely talks, and he seems to prefer the company of our 2 dogs, Piper and Buddy, than us.
Other thing, uh, right now I feel that I don't know him anymore because of the years that we were appart. For example, I just learned that he volunteered at helping for some social cause and for tutoring for younger kids. I yelled at him of why did I had to know about his life at school through teachers and not himself.

2007-08-25 13:55:36 · 26 answers · asked by Music 1

Help, please! I am in 9th grade, and I have seen everything they have in our books. Could I change to 10th grade? I have seen the things they are seeing there and I don't know that stuff, but I know what we are seeing right now. Could you help, or give opinions, please?

2007-08-25 12:17:18 · 17 answers · asked by Music 1

everywhere i go with my family people give me dirty looks. My husband and i eloped when i was 14 and he was 17 (yes, it was legal in Massachusetts). Now he's a nurse and supports me and our 4 (5 come spring)children. I will never regret the decision i made early on in life. but i hate it when people judge me because of my age. We own our house, are not in debt, and the kids (ages 3, twin 2, and 1) are happy and well behaved. we regulary attend church and i have graduated high school, my husband has gone to college and is a RN. i love my life except for the fact that people judge us because we are so young, they automatically assume that we're not married, and are just living together with 4 "mistakes". each of our kids were planned. how can i get this across to them?

2007-08-25 05:29:11 · 34 answers · asked by Lorrie 2

Will I be able to get pregnant in the future... or will it damage it?

2007-08-25 04:18:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will I need to stay at the hospital for more than a day... How long is the procedure? And is it painful?

2007-08-25 04:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 04:07:40 · 34 answers · asked by Shanesse L 1

My 11 year old twins have been playing in a hyper-competitive football league and want to quit. They are screamed at, cussed at and treated like they are worthless by the coaches and it seems to be hurting their confidence. They have played for 5 years and we have always made them see things through that they start. The problem is, their treatment has been putting stress on me as well and in turn the whole family (boys, me & husband). My question is, how much do we take and how miserable do we all have to be in order to teach them a lesson that you don't just quit because it gets tough? I am afraid that while teaching the lesson to see things through, I am inadvertently allowing their self-respect to plummet because of these ridiculous coaches. The league is not for the children anymore, it is for the coaches who are competing amongst eachother at the expense of the little guys.

What would you do? I am miserable and so are my boys. I just sent them to a game crying.

2007-08-25 03:49:11 · 17 answers · asked by starbrite74♥♥ 3

why is gay marriage being banned from some states?
thats wrong to ban it in some of the states. this is a free country . they should have no right to ban it.
what do you think of gay marriage? do you think its wrong? if you do think its wrong please explain. i do not think gay marriage is wrong. people can love whoever they want. it should not matter with who the person they love is. god loves everyone. it may not be "natural" or whatever. but, its not wrong.

2007-08-24 18:03:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 14, and i wanna go to a concert with my friend whos also 14, dont u think i should be allowed to go?

2007-08-24 16:18:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 12 and in 7th grade. She just started junior high school. She hasn't communicate with me, her father, and sister for a while. I have another daughter that is 9 that communicate & tells me everything and treats like I am her best friend. My 12 yr old doesn't talk unless she have to and spends every spare second in her room with her door closed. She doesn't even join family reunions or activities. I talk to her that I am upset about it. She say she wants to be this way and feels embarrassed about being with the family and is afraid that she might be with the family more than her sister. She feels if she is older, she shouldn't be with the family more than her little sister because she doesn't want to be more dependent than her sister who is younger. I don't understand why. I have a little sister too and when I was 12, I always want to be with my parents even if my little sister doesn't. I never feel embarrassed about it. Why is my 12 yr old that way? What I can do?

2007-08-24 15:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't want your opinion..i want facts.


what percentenge of teens do drugs.

2007-08-24 15:10:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need alot of dough by nov.

2007-08-24 14:49:31 · 27 answers · asked by Christina <3 2

I know this guy likes me and I like him too.People on here told me he did..lol..
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmqeIZfaMe.x.xBEWfVwXMHsy6IX?qid=20070823183803AAAROSQ

Should I ask him or wait to be asked by him..

2007-08-24 14:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I shouldn't be complaining...BUT...

Tonight my mom made a stir fry for dinner. I was fine with it. I would just pick out the meat. But she put so much meat in it that I can't even pick it out! (I'm vegetarian, and she knows it.) My parents don't respect me AT ALL. Today I wanted to shop at Hot Topic. My mom wouldn't let me buy a shirt from there for 28 bucks (not as expensive at AE, where I can buy anything), but yet my sister got a shirt and two pairs of pants, all equaling around 40 bucks. She said, "Come on, Erika, I want to get outta here!" She said it loud enough for everyone to hear and I was SOOO embarrassed! She doesn't understand it! And then when I tell her I like something, she says, "Eww, it's black!" No sh!t it's black! She buys me all of these preppy things, and I hate it. I tell her that I'm not broken and she can't fix me, but she doesn't understand that! She doesn't accept me for who I am AT ALL. How do I deal with this?!

2007-08-24 12:37:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was on the depro shot when i got pregnant and my bf in the past years has been on bipolar and depression meds even though he isnt bipolar what are the possible side effects that would be harmful to the baby like any birthdefects. I only had one shot it was my first and im only about 1 1/2 months along but i really need to know the risk so i can decide what to do

2007-08-24 12:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by ashley 1

2007-08-24 11:58:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-24 11:57:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im gonna commit sucide j/k
seriously though i've been to a private school since 3rd grade im quite sick of it the uniforms are tacky the boys are geeky the girls are immature they still play the cootie game

now i need some reasons why i should go to a public school to tell my parents

help???!!!!

2007-08-24 11:23:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gloomy Princesess 3

Ok, here's the deal. I'm 16 years old and i have mixed feelings about drinking (as in alcohol). I'm a christian and so i've been taught that drinking is wrong. but nowhere in the bible does it say that. it just says not to get drunk. either way it's still illegal for me to drink because i'm underage. my parents drink a little bit. you know a glass of wine occasionally when they get home from work, or a beer with grandpa and the uncles over thanksgiving weekend. sometimes when my family is with my grandparents and we have a toast or something on special occasions, they pour me and my brother(18) and sister (20) a glass of champaigne or wine too. i don't prefer the taste, but i drink a little bit anyway. the adults (my parents and grandparents) told us that as long as we were with them drinking a little wine we were okay, but to never do it anywhere where they aren't around (i haven't and i never will). but is it still okay when i'm with them. is it still a sin or "illegal". please help?

2007-08-24 10:54:26 · 52 answers · asked by :) 3