2007-08-24 11:57:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Who cares if he gets hard?! It is so easy for a guy to get hard so do not ever ever ever feel obliged to deal with that! From the sound of it you are toooo young to be having sex. Sex is something that you should know the consequences of before you engage in it. If he gets hurt because you do not want to have sex than he isn't respecting the fact that you don't want to. Make sure he understands that just because you don't want to have sex with him it does not mean you don't like him. I say lose him, if he is making you feel bad for saying no then he isn't worth it.
2007-08-24 12:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by pestross 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm it doesnt hurt them to get hard. They may tell you " ill explode if you dont" or " guys arent like girls" BULL CRAP! They will say and do anything to talk u into it! Hold strong to your beliefs and never let anyone force you or talk you into something your not ready for! Hmmmm on the other hand if u really like him and u r in a relationship there r other things u can do to make him happy........without actual sex.
2007-08-24 12:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heck if I had sex everytime my husband got hard I would be in the bedroom 24/7.He stays hard.
Just tell him you're not in the mood.Tell him to go to the bathroom and whack off.
2007-08-24 13:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by flavagirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a guy gets hard, it does not necessarily mean that he wants to have sex. there are many circumstances in which it gets hard. but if he really wants to have sex, just b strong and say no. unless he attempts to force himself on u, den u should give him a swift kick in the balls to sober him up.
2007-08-24 19:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by derek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys get hard a lot that doesn't mean that you have to have sex with them. It won't hurt his feelings if you say no he can just do what he does when your not there, jack off. If you guys are dating and you want to you could give him a blow.job or jack him off yourself.
2007-08-24 15:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean hurt his feelings? I would not worry about it. Guys get hard from the time they are infants until the day they die. It won't kill him I promise you. I am sure he knows how to "take care of it himself", if his erection becomes painful.
2007-08-24 13:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to have sex, you shouldn't be getting to the point where he's hard.
simple as that.
2007-08-24 12:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Dj 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are just not ready and it's not about him. Also let him know that pressuring you is so not sexy because a hot/attractive guy shouldn't have to pressure or plead someone into sleeping with them.
2007-08-24 12:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's sexually attracted to you. It happens. If he asks to do something sexually - just tell him you don't want to. He should be okay with this if he is a half decent person. You won't hurt him by saying no.
2007-08-24 12:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by abandonedvixen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel because if he pressures you into doing something you dont want to do, you could regret it for the rest of your life so always make sure you are comfortable.
2007-08-24 12:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by tina e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋