if they find out i will be in sooo much trouble!! PLEASE HELP no money for abortion!
2007-08-26 07:23:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I can't believe you are even asking this question.
Do you know how dangerous what you are suggesting is !!
Even if you don't want the baby, you are responsible for it and yourself.
If you want an abortion go and have one. If you are living in the Uk The NHS do abortions for free. If you can't have one for free. You need to grow up and start being responsible and talk to people who can help you sort this out. I know it's scary but do you really think inducing an abortion yourself would be easy to hide or deal with?
Grow up and stop asking such ridiculous questions.
2007-08-26 07:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kysalin 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to kill your baby!? thats so horrible.just tell them and give it up for adoption. U now have a new life in you and abortion is murder. U took on the responsibility of having sex and getting pregnant at a young age but u know this is on your shoulders now. The baby deserves to live and grow up in a loving environment. Sure your parents will be upset but im sure they'll understand that you made a mistake.
God bless you and i hope all goes well ♥♥♥
2007-08-26 12:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do that would not be endangering 2 people's lives. If you quit eating, chances are, you could die too. If you are afraid of your parents reaction, you need to talk to a teacher or your principle at school, or a health worker. If you have any reason to suspect abuse from your parents because of this, they can help. You also don't have to resort to abortion. There are so many couples who would love to adopt a little baby because they are not able to have one themselves. Also, many people come to regret an abortion afterwards. You don't have to keep the baby, but don't do something you may regret. Better safe than sorry. You might want to find a local church with a supportive youth group or a pregnancy support group. It can be helpful to have friends.
2007-08-26 07:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by jessica R 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1.How old are you?
2. Are your parents the type to beat you up or mistreat you if you do something wrong?
3. Wheres the father?
If your parents do abuse you, then you can't talk to them, but talk to another adult that you trust. I believe that if you got yourself into this situation you should take care of it, and the baby doesn't deserve to die, adoption could be a better choice, if the baby does die you still have to go to the doctor to have it taken out, even if is comes out on its own you have to be checked out by a doctor and be sure everything came out or you could get sick from things decaying inside you.
But if your just afraid that your parents will be upset, and lecture you, then tell them, most parents only lecture to try and keep you out of harms way. Having a baby is a big responsibility, and you know have to think like and adult.
Good luck.
2007-08-26 10:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chey_18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to me. You need to tell someone. I know you're scared and distraught, but if you try to keep this a secret there will be more serious consequences than getting in trouble with your parents. If you can't talk to your parents, then talk to a guidance counselor. They'll find a way to help you.
You clearly feel that you can't keep your baby. Since abortion isn't an option for you, look into adoption. Once your baby is born, it will be placed with a family wanting to adopt an infant. You might be able to keep in contact with the adoptive family if you want to hear about your baby's progress, or you can choose to not keep in contact with the family if you'd rather not associate with your child.
Please do not try to kill the fetus. Any method you try could potentially hurt or kill you. I think your parents would be much more upset to find you dead than they would to find out you're pregnant.
2007-08-26 08:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if you did not want a baby then you should have used a Condom or better yet you should not have had sex. I can't believe you are asking how to kill your own baby. There are many females out there that want a baby and can't have one. You should tell your parents and let them help you decide what to do.
2007-08-29 15:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty145 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 2 months along, have you even seen a doctor??? Go to a pregnancy center asap! It's free, you don't have to take a parent with you if you don't want to, and they'll go over all your *healthy* options with you. Starving yourself, injesting weird herbs, throwing yourself down a stairwell, etc. is definitely NOT healthy!
To find a clinic, call 1-800-395-HELP or click here- http://www.pregnancycenters.org/advantage.asp
You can also email me any time!
<3 Kelsey
2007-08-26 08:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a friend or a relative you can turn to? Perhaps you can talk to that person and find a way to resolve your problem. Perhaps they can talk to your parents. I know that some parents can be monsters but most of them do come around. They'll be angry or disappointed but don't try to hide it from them and give birth in secret. If you do, it is a decision you will regret for the rest of your life. There have been numerous incidents of girls doing this and many of them ended up going to jail for abandoning their babies or killing them.
2007-08-26 07:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by RoVale 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
whatever you do NOT try to kill your baby!!!! i mean what if your mom had did that to you and you weren't here right now!! tell you parents!! all they can do is punish you and i am shure you will have a beutiful baby
oh and after months of being pregnant you can't get an abortion anyway!!
2007-08-27 09:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Can Get an abortion from the NHS for free but you need to a a good reason, and also get tablets from the doctors which bring on a miscarriage but i dont no if that 1 is to late
2007-08-26 08:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Miaa 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋