2 years ago we found out that my husband's 12 year old nephew had made my then 5 year old daughter perform oral sex on him. We completely flipped out, took her to the appropriate counselling, doctor appointments, informed the police and what not and also cut all contact.
Since then he has tried to commit suicide 3 times. We were requested to have an interview with his counsellor who asked if we would consider writing him a letter to explain we didn't think he was a paedophile, and also asked us what would happen in the near future if say there was a family wedding.
Both my husband and I are happy to keep living life without him in it, but we understand there may be times when we cannot attend family functions because he will be there.
They feel he is not progressing with his counselling because we no longer have any contact.
I'm so confused, I have no idea what to do. I don't want his parents to have to bury him, but also don't ever want this little cretin to harm another child
2007-08-21
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