Our family had a sleep over with my cousin who has a 10 yr old boy.The boy and my daughter were really close as they grew up together.About a month back we found them kissing under the covers.They both blamed it on each other,and had stories ready to tell us if they were caught.
I told her that the only thing she did was lie to us and try to cover it up.I emphasied that she could come to us with anything,even if it is something that would disappoint us.
She is still upset about what she had done and told me many times how ashamed she is and how sorry she is about it.
I Made sure of telling her over and over again that it was just a mistake and that the boy who is older than her,who knew about sex took advantage of her.
I am afraid if something more than kissing had happened,she says its just kissing.
How can I help her?How will I find out if something more happened without hurting her.She gets upset as soon as I bring it up.
Any help would be appriciated from parents and doctors
2007-02-05
12:10:46
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