I am being harassed?

Question

What to do about thugs harassing me coming on to me? they're like 16-20 and im only 14

Answer 1

report it to someone, hopefully they dont do someting worse. if your scared than tell someone

Answer 2

Tell some one what is going on. If this is taking place in the mall, or out in the street etc protect yourself by not loitering or making sure you are not alone. Try and find somewhere, perhaps a local community group that offers classes in self defence for women so that you can feel strong and empowered when you are out. When some one you are not interested in is comming on to you be very clear and firm when telling them you are not interested then walk away immediately to somewhere safe, usually somewhere where there is a large group of people. If it is the same people harrassing you consistantly do not let yourself get into situations where you are alone with them. If you do not feel you can tell your parents try talking to a guidence counsellor at school or go to the police and ask what can be done by you and them to enssure you are protected. The police may not intervene if nothing has happened to you however I am sure they would be able to give you some advice on how to deal with the situation.

Answer 3

I dont want ya to think im jking, but buy mace, buy a pocket knife, and call the police!!! you dont wanna be raped, do you?! im turning 14, and i've been harrased buy wannabe thugs (peepl think my nebrhood is ghetto, so they act like that), and I let them know I had mace, a knofe, and a cell in my bag( then i pulled out all the stuff) I and I said if they dont stop, they're not gonna see another day at school. good luck, dont get hurt, & show your power, sister!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

do u got a brother cuz u can get him to protect u cuz my friends sister has that same problem so he doesnt ride the bus ne more in the afternoon cuz he has to walk his sister home with which is cool cuz all he trying to do is protect her cuz that what family do.if their harassing you then tell someone and make sure they listen cuz that seems like a sure ways u could rape by one or all of them which u should be careful take up a self-defense class to protect yourself if you dont got nobody to protect you but make sure u stay safe god bless.

Answer 5

Don't go around where they are. If that can't be helped, have someone walk with you that could act as a deterant. Like an uncle, male friend, brother, dad, etc. If they are over 18, report them to the police, they will be picked up as a pedophile.

Answer 6

If they EVER EVER try to touch you! Call me and I will kick their a s s's!

But seriously, if they do. Take your fingers and grab them in the balls and just twist like your life depended on it and don't let go until the guy starts begging for mercy.

Answer 7

i have this problem too.. i'll be walking down the street and a million guys will just be watching me, licking their lips and stuff like that.. and im 16

i just keep waling and ignore them... and i always make sure i have my cell phone out. and usually im with my bestfriend so im not scared

but god isnt it annoying lol

Answer 8

Reort them to the police, for one some of them are over the age of 17 so they can be charged for harrassing you as for the 16 and 17 year olds the police will visit there homes and talk with her parents but I do not think they will arrest them and charge them

Answer 9

You should tell them you are not interested, and are only 14.

If they continue, tell an adult that you are being harassed.

Answer 10

stay away from them and the people that hang around them..if it gets worse tell your parents.. or call the cops.. i had to report someone when i was 13 got a restraining order against them..