My husband and I have been married a little over a year now, and have been together about six years. I always end up telling people that "if he could be the pregnant one, we'd have had a kid by now and another on the way!" I'm just the opposite. I always, always take a while to be committed to something, anything- I can't just jump in like he does. He feels he's getting old (only 25, I'm 24), but I don't. I always told him I'd like to wait at least five years to have kids, but now he really wants to speed things up. I worry about the "what if's..." I am a teacher and plan to always be one. I don't want to be the kind of mom that takes years off to raise their children, though that is admirable and noble. His job will not carry us through if I have to quit. His familiy is very supportive.
Here's the question: what made you decide to finally start a family? I want one, but I don't know when. He's pressuring me to start this summer and be pregnant all next year. ANY advice?
2007-01-21
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Adje J
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Other - Pregnancy & Parenting