did u want to do it alone or did ur bf leave u mine did.... he left me at 11 weeks..... and so im was just woundering if there was a lot of teen or close to my age out there that is doing this alone too....? i have not heard from my baby daddy for 2 months.....
2007-01-21 07:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If so how r u copeing with this bec im so stresed out about it.... bec I still love my baby daddy and i want him back...... im kinda scared 2 do this by myself..... when we got pregnant we both want the baby but then see i have anger problems and he told me to get out of his house so i did and he told me that he does not want anything to do with me ever again.... so im realy haveing a problem this bec we love each other.... but he just cd not take my anger anymore... but now i have got help and he still dose not care ... we were going to get married but it never happend.... he left me at 11 weeks ....
2007-01-21 08:04:44 · update #1
well honey, im 21 and 24 weeks pregnant. Im married and my husband left me. He already has a new g/f.
i know its hard. what helps me is talking to people. My hubby keeps trying to call me, mean when hes with his g/f and nice when hes not. we are too good for men to do this to us.
i know with being pregnant your emotions are all out of whack, you love them one moment and the next you dont. it sucks that they have to do this while were pregnant, but once you have this baby you will go back to normal.
I just started seeing a counselor. But stay strong and you will make it through this
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2007-01-21 09:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to find someone your age to relate to, but shout out to the older single moms too cause we have been there and done that! I'm older than you (I'm 30) and I'm a single parent. The key to being a successfull single parent is to dont sweat the small stuff! So your baby doent wear the finest clothes and name brands, Walmart makes very cute clothes. Just say the baby needs to go to the doctor or the emergency room, dont call the baby daddy to tag along for all that,do what you have to do for your child. Just know that since the baby daddy wants to act crazy, the baby needs mommy! Be strong, dont freak out over small stuff and you'll be ok. Mommies are a must, Daddies are an extra!
2007-01-26 18:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by childrenrthefuture97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 have on son already and 8weeks and single.I know exactley what u are going through.At first it is very difficult and scary.But u will make it through this if u have other people there to support you(family,friend).You can still be a great mom and be single at the same time if things dont work out.Im sure he still loves you.You just need to tell him look I have gotten help for my anger and we still have a little while before the baby is here lets see if we can work this out for ourselves if we really love each other and for our baby.There shouldnt be a reason why he cant give u another chance.
2007-01-21 08:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my bf when i was 6 months along. he was a LOSER. i was 18 about to be 19. he was there for the delivery but nothing after. he was worthless. but now my baby is about to be 2 and i am married now to a wonderful guy who isn't the real daddy but is a better daddy than my ex every could have been. i'm not going to say its easy because no one will love your baby as much as you but you will find someone (mom, sister, friend, etc.) that will step in and help you and you get to be the one who enjoys your little one.he gets left out on the two of you. you are not alone. and if you ever need to talk i'm here for ya, lol.
2007-01-21 08:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by c.cibik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a single mom untill last year when i got married. My son is now 5. So i was single for 4 years.
Dont be scared. Take your ex to court for child support and leave it at that.
There are thousands of single moms out there.
It is hard work but its worth it. Every day with your child is a blessing. Be smart and set up education policies and join a support group. Hopefully you will have the support of your family in this time. Dont really on the "dad" to do anything, he is a coward and he doesn't deserve you or your child.
2007-01-21 08:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by TakeNoticeNow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 when I became pregnant, 18 when I delivered, 19 now. I didnt want to do it alone but thats what it came down to in the end. My daughter's father left for some stupid reason, he said he couldnt produce girls. I said oh yeah i bet she is going to be a girl, turned out she was! Anyways He has not seen her ever! She is 16 months, and everytime someone asks him about her, he just shuts his mouth. Sometimes it is better to be a single mom than to put up with the dads crap.
2007-01-21 08:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I went it alone when I was 21. It can be pretty scary to go it alone, though; you don't have to be ALONE!! Current friends will help you. Also, attending single parents meetings to meet other single parents is a good idea. It also can help you GET A BREAK!!
Making friends with OTHER single parents...... you can give that person a break by taking care of their child/children for 4 or 5 hours while they take a break & in return, they can take care of your child/children!! This way, you BOTH benefit!!!
2007-01-24 06:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 24. i'm a single mom of a 2 1/2 yr old little girl. first off, the last thing you want is fighting or yelling around your child. i've been raising my daughter on my own from day 1. It is tough at times. but you can do it. i lived with my mom at first. then i was able to get my own place. maybe you two can seek counseling together. and also on your own if you really want the relationship to work. but you really need to think about your child. and what is best for him/her. you don't want your child around yelling. it can bring a lot of problems to their life. Good Luck hun!
2007-01-21 08:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know if you would call me a single parent. i am not together with the dad but he is still going to be here at my house. i guess you wouldn't call me a single parent then but he also acts like he is 8 all the time. lol sooooo i guess it is just how you look at it. i personally want to do it alone. he has no job, license or anything. not even 5 dollars to his name. i have a job, car, a really good amount of savings and i did that all by myself. i have worked my *** off and still am. trust me i feel really alone with everything i am doing. i wish the best of luck to you and your baby!
2007-01-21 08:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by amyw7313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make friends with single moms.
My gf is killerbod3, thats her yahoo IM.
She was the single mom of 3 when I met her.
She'll be able to help you a lot.
2007-01-21 08:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by badbadboy6979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋