ok, First of all. Take a deep breath and breathe for a moment, second of all, Talk to your dad about your problems with your mom, third If you are not quite ready to talk to your mom, go to a Guidance Counselor at school or a Counselor and talk to them about it, fourth when your ready, sit your mom down and just talk to her, I know it seems really hard, but it will benefit you in the end, If you need any backup, make sure you have a phone near you if the "unexpected" happens. If you have any serious questions about this feel free to email me
2007-01-21 13:29:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe you feel that your depression is obvious.She might think you are being a typical teenager.You have to let her know about what's going on. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Maybe you think that she is the mom and it's her responsibility to talk to you, but moms are human and make mistakes, you need to sit down with her. You should probably talk to your school counselor as well, depression is no joke. Your mom and dad are not trained to provide you with the mental and emotional support that you may need at this point, especailly if they have never experienced or witnessed serious depression. If you let them know what is going on, they can talk to you and professionals about how to help you and how to avoid making things worse. You can't blame other people for something that they are doing without telling them what they are doing. You have to take responsibility for yourself. If you are depressed do something about it. Getting mad at your mom isn't going to help you in the long run.
2007-01-21 08:02:29
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answered by jc2006 4
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Knowing your age would help, but I imagine you are about 14 maybe ? I am 56, have been thru a divorce and my ex remarried and I do understand this stuff. My grown daughter probably felt this way because she was an introvert and I an extrovert. The very best thing you can do is get a "mentor", an adult you trust outside of the family circle to talk to that you trust. They can be objective, neither of your parents probably can. A counselor you trust would be great, youth minister etc. You do have rights and don't have to just put up with it. But you have to go about it the right way or you'll just hurt your image or reputation with adults.
2007-01-21 07:57:17
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answered by ? 4
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Why don't you talk to your father about this issue and let him know what is going on. If you are old enough in your state you can actually go to court and make a decision about which parent you want to live with. Also try talking to your mom about the way she makes you feel, but if all she does it yell at you (my mom used to do this) just forget about it. You have to have an actual conversation without yelling and if she can't realize this and talk to you like you are a normal human being and like she loves you then she's shoved to far up her own ***. Hope this helps.
2007-01-21 07:57:50
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answered by ? 2
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You should see a counselor. Talk to your dad about it to. Your mother must have primary custody of you. If you are 14 then you are old enough to choose where you want to live. You should not have to put up with the abuse that your mother is dishing out.You may even want to contact a child welfare office in your city if it gets worse.
2007-01-21 08:10:47
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answered by ally_oop_64 4
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I'm not really sure how to answer, since from your previous answers I think your mom has a right to be mad at you.
But if I'm wrong, leave a comment and I might change my answer in order to help you
2007-01-21 07:58:11
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answered by Ashley 3
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i would get some help and talk to your dad, i mean you have to talk to someone about how you are feeling. if you just keep it bottled up you are just going to find yourself even more depressed
2007-01-21 07:56:55
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answered by amyw7313 3
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I agree with blue.
Drop me a line, IM me, or, if I'm not there, go see a counselor before class tommorrow.
2007-01-21 08:06:07
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answered by ZZ 4
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Tell her how you feel maybe she'll let you live with your dad 4 a while
2007-01-21 08:56:36
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answered by nicnoo23 4
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oh i hear you sister i have kind of the same problem. just sleepover at a friends or tell your dad i need to stay here longer and yah.
2007-01-21 07:54:19
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answered by abby_borg 2
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